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How can men understand the language of love spoken by women

A woman's heart is a needle on the bottom of the sea. This sentence is used by men to describe a woman. Although women's mind is very sensitive, there is no way for men not to read it. So men should have a snack. It's easy for you to understand a woman's heart by knowing these languages

Read the false words of women's love, people often say: Women's heart, the bottom needle. It's about women's sensitivity, worry and fickleness, and telling lies is the most direct way for women to hide themselves. Here, we need to remind some male compatriots that a woman's words can't be ignored, but they can't be fully believed. The key is to be able to hear the truth behind her through her false words. If a man can't hear the truth behind his own woman's most basic fake words, he can't be a husband in any case.

For example, on a girl's birthday, you said you would give her a gift, but she refused to take it, so she didn't buy it. But after that, she had to take it to her mouth seven or eight or ten times to say 'it's obviously the man's fault. What kind of animal is a woman? The probability of duplicity is obviously higher than that of a boy, and the more duplicity is in the face of the beloved Before, the more obvious it is. When the man wants to give him a gift, on the one hand, she is really reluctant to spend money. On the other hand, she is still very eager. She also wants to test her husband's sincerity in giving gifts, so she has a fake saying that she just refuses to take it. But behind the fake saying is the truth that she really wants to get his gift. In fact, most women are more jealous after marriage than before. And this kind of jealousy, is often a sense of security and self unloading needs, but also an expression of love. It is by no means what many of us men understand as' mischievous' and 'unruly'. Women's jealousy is supported by their own bottom line and sixth sense. At the same time, they often have all kinds of signs and hints before they get jealous. As long as men are a little careful and pay attention, most jealousy can be perceived and controlled in advance.

For example, it's a woman who asks her husband to help her female friends, but just after dealing with it, she puts on a poker face and is very unhappy all day. The next day, she knows that she thinks her husband is too close to others. In view of this situation, as long as you are a little more careful at that time, or pay attention to his woman moderately, you can fully detect it. Reading the forbidden words of women's love, the man truthfully confessed her annual income under the mother's inquiry, which is not wrong. However, if we think from his wife's point of view, she will think that this is his betrayal of herself. She will be afraid that when her mother-in-law knows her income, she will mistakenly think how much she gave her money to her mother's family and how much she spent on cosmetics. Or, there is another possibility, that is, on an earlier occasion, she may have concealed or voluntarily 'confessed' her husband's income in front of her mother-in-law, and there is a certain discrepancy between her husband's' truthful account '.

Therefore, from this point of view, the husband's appearance of truthfulness is actually a violation of her wife's taboo. That is, in the long marriage, he did not understand her forbidden language. In principle, two people have been together for so many years, men should know more about this kind of forbidden language of some women. This is not cowardice, but a man's wisdom. Because whether you end up compromising on these taboos or not, you have to be aware of them. Read women's love babble, women love to dream. At the beginning of pregnancy, the wife will naturally have the idea to name the child repeatedly. In general, many of us men will take women's repeated and meaningless behavior as boredom. It's a man's misunderstanding of women. Women's gossiping is the source of their smart life, and a lot of our women's motivation in life comes from her imagination.

They like to find the pleasure of life in imagination and balderdash. They will regard "naming their children" as their greatest happiness. This kind of abstract and hedonistic gibberish is the innate attribute of women, and can not be judged by men's time and economic values. Read the silence of women's love in many occasions, we all abide by such an anonymous law, that is, silence is default. However, this law does not apply to women in particular. Their silence is not necessarily on behalf of acquiescence, but more often on behalf of opposition. What's more, their 'abnormal' behavior tends to be more abnormal in front of more intimate people.

For example, when her husband proposed to give 800 yuan to her mother-in-law for the Dragon Boat Festival, her wife did not say a word. In fact, it was not acceptance that he understood, but opposition, dissatisfaction and sulk.