[a share from Haimei] you said, what kind of creature is Meizhi. Haimei, who has been a sister for more than 20 years, sometimes thinks about it for boys. Is it a gentle little white rabbit or a wild female tiger?
Speaking of this problem, I feel that I am worrying about the difficulty of learning Chinese for foreigners. Sometimes it's really hard for girls to understand. When girls ask questions, they don't need your solutions at all. What they need is your attitude. Let's take a look at the following correct opening methods~
A kind of
Baby, are you stupid!
01
What I need is you
Show up at my side in time
Don't make so many excuses
Scenario 1: for example, when a person is walking in an alley at night, or when he is working overtime and walking alone on the road
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Wrong demonstration: the core is to emphasize the importance of oneself and ignore her feelings
1. How busy and important he is
You know, I'm working overtime. I'm very busy!
There are many things today. Where can I have time to have sex?
2. I'll turn around and scold you
You are such a big man, how can you walk by yourself
I work so hard to earn money to support my family?
3. Teach you some obvious truth
You can take a taxi back
Why are you working so late?
Right demonstration: what do girls want?
1. Whether it's your fault or not, it's your fault
Sorry, baby, it's me!
I work hard now, and I will support you well in the future~
Even if you are blowing bull force, but the heart will feel warm.
2. Real company, even if it's just voice or phone call
Let me make a phone call or video with you. It may be a little busy, but we can always be online.
Hear each other or see each other,
Even if you don't talk to me, I think you at least care about me.
I'm more important than anything you have!
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02
I don't need you to teach me
The most important thing is to make me happy!
Scenario 2: recently in the driver's license test, I said to my boyfriend: 'what can I do? I haven't passed the theory test.'
Wrong demonstration: the core is against teaching her that she is stupid and useless
1. What she already knows / nonsense:
How nice!
Just listen to it next time.
Why don't you listen carefully!
Then what are you doing? You are brushing wechat again!
You do it every time!
Why can all the other students listen well?
I told you a long time ago, but you didn't listen to me
I asked you to delete wechat during the exam, but you didn't delete it!
I told you to go to bed early last night, but you didn't listen!
4. What she can't / doesn't want to do (even if it's a positive explanation)
You should listen to the class well, don't be distracted!
You should delete wechat! Or don't bring your mobile phone!
You have more self-control!
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Right demonstration: what do girls want to hear most?
1. Give her affirmation (she may have tried hard, and the hard part needs to be affirmed)
Well, I understand. My dear (girlfriend) was determined to listen to the class well.
I know you worked very hard. I got up early today, and my schoolbag was tidy. I was ready for class.
2. It's someone else's fault, someone else's pot
It's too boring to talk alone!
Blame wechat for too many things / you are too busy at ordinary times
It's all due to the bad learning atmosphere. Your classmates are so noisy
3. It's all my fault
It's all my fault. I'm always bothering you!
It's all my fault. If I can teach, I'll tell you!
Blame me for not being able to go to class with you and urge you to attend class.
Blame me. I'm not strong enough to help you improve your grades
Generally speaking, I laugh when I hear this!
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03
What we want is solution action
It's not a solution
We only provide solutions, but not actions.
Are you too lazy to help, or do you really think I don't know how to solve it?
What's your attitude?
For example, she has to stay up late,
You make her coffee and buy her snacks.
She wants to get up early,
You help her wake up.
Anything you can help, do it,
This is the attitude of support and heart.
How do most straight men do it?
If you want to stay up late, I'll go to bed first.
Don't stay up too late. It's bad for your skin.....
If you want to get up early, I'll go to bed again.
Why do you get up so early? XXX is really sick......
Don't think about girls' problems very simply,
It's so simple that you don't have to think about it,
It's like if you just say a solution and it's settled.
This is the most annoying, careless and arrogant. (╰_ ╯)#
If I were a boy, I would be your good boyfriend
Because I usually take care of you like this:
'does this look good? "
'buy'
'Do you like me fat or thin '
'I like it when you're not angry.'
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