A share from Haimei: the happiest and most loving couple in the world have at least 200 divorce thoughts and 50 strangling thoughts in their lifetime. It's hard to avoid bumps in life. Quarrels often happen. A husband who quarrels will do these things to make marriage sweeter.
1. Bow your head and admit your mistake
When quarreling, everyone is full of anger. Someone has to bow down to admit his mistake and put an end to the war in order to live on. Some men regard their own face as extremely important, thinking that apologizing first will hurt their self-esteem, but ignore that it is a more humiliating thing to let the woman who pays silently for the family to please them and coax themselves.
A husband who loves you must be the one who first gives up his white flag when he quarrels, because he knows that you care more about this family than he does, and also understands that the sensitivity and delicacy of women's psychology will make you feel more sad and aggrieved than him after a quarrel.
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2. Be able to defuse wife's anger with humor
When fighting, women's anger comes and goes quickly. The key is to understand how to resolve it. At this time, women often listen to the same voice, continue to quarrel with her will make her more angry. If the husband can use his sense of humor, say a few witty words for a woman to laugh, plus some flattery can make his wife's anger instantly extinguished.
A love your husband, in the quarrel also has the way to coax you happy. He is always the person who knows you best. He knows that you are not really angry, just need an environment to calm down.
3. Don't talk hard
When fighting, some words are said without thinking, such as' divorce if you can't make it ','This is the house I earn money to buy, get out of here! "The words that hurt people are like water thrown out. These hurtful words can't be taken back, which not only destroys the sanctity of marriage, but also deeply damages women's self-esteem.
A husband who loves you takes your marriage more seriously than anything else. For the sake of the bottom line, some words are reserved for the sake of marriage.
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4. Don't turn over old accounts
No man is a saint. In these years of husband and wife hand in hand, who hasn't done something wrong, or even some stupid thing, when they quarrel, they say that they can't be more reasonable, but also make their wives angry. After all, no one likes to be reminded of mistakes from time to time, let alone the one they love most. A love your husband, quarrel will also care about your face, he will not through the old way to humiliate you, will not let himself appear small and petty.
5. Don't compare with others
Some men are loyal and loyal. They love their wives the most in the world. They always compare their wives with other women. "You can see how gentle and considerate people are." but I don't know. What the wife cares about most is that the husband doesn't like and dislike a husband who loves you. When quarreling, you are still the best in his eyes, and marriage is not Can be compared, since choose each other is from the heart to accept each other, others look good, as long as the wife is really from the heart to you.
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6. No time to reason
Women are naturally emotional, but men prefer to be reasonable. Sometimes when they quarrel, they must argue for right and wrong, and persuade each other with their own truth. The family is a person who is more reasonable than reasonable. The woman who quarrels has no reason to speak of. It is difficult to convince people by reason.
When your husband quarrels, he will let you have a good quarrel. Sometimes women's unreasonable is just an expression of love, want to let the other side accommodation, coax a coax, prove that the original love is still there.
The most rare thing in marriage is not the sweet words of happiness, but when quarreling, he still keeps you in his heart. At that time, people's words and deeds are all from instinct. When they quarrel, they can love you and spoil you. Your husband really loves you.