A share from Haimei: Yiming called me suddenly at 1:30 last night to stay at our place: I can't stand her any more, so let's break up... Xuanxuan and Yiming were a couple we envied when they were in University. In our opinion, there is nothing to separate them from each other except for the end of time. We all came to the city together. At the beginning, we shared a room. Later, he split up and lived alone. Roughly speaking, it can be regarded as nearly a year's cohabitation time. In fact, since their cohabitation, some subtle changes still exist, but they have not found it by themselves. I have never quarreled before. After cohabitation, there is friction, and quarrel is common. The most serious one was to be killed by one shot. I don't know what happened today. It's more serious than last time.
I have seen a lot of lovers from sweet to the end, and cohabitation, as if it is a ridge, can harvest happiness, cross the past is to break up, read heaven, read hell. Cohabitation seems to be only one step away from breaking up. What changes do couples have before and after cohabitation?
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1、 Sweet no longer, ignore the people around
Many people think that cohabitation is an important step before marriage. Some people think that this is marriage, only one certificate less than marriage. After cohabitation, there was no one who was in love. She was afraid that the object would be dug by others. Her vigilance relaxed and she thought that she was her own. Sometimes, she would not be restrained by her small temperament. Sometimes, when her temper came, she would even yell at her. Compared with the sweetness and romance in love, they would rather save money to buy a car, a house and milk powder for their future children. In the past, in order to please the girl, they could buy what she liked without hesitation and try to please her in a variety of ways, as long as she was happy. After cohabitation, all the trivialities of life have come, and there is no more time for romance.
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2、 Too much understanding is on the verge of breaking up
Cohabitation takes off all the covers you have when you're in love. In love, we are careful, always pay attention to their words and deeds, pay attention to their own clothes, but cohabitation on this stage, you seem to expose all your little hobbies. When you go out, you always pay attention to whether your shoes are clean or not, and whether your trouser legs are gray or not. No one knows whether your home is littered with your smelly socks on the sofa. Your living habits and hidden privacy are not covered. After living together, you know your TA better than you know yourself, snore, don't wash socks, throw underwear everywhere, don't love hygiene, etc. When you are in love, Ta is the perfect marriage partner in your heart. After cohabitation, you find out how TA looks like this. Sorry, can I break up...
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3、 I can't bring up sex
This is the most sad point. Before cohabitation, there are not many dating opportunities, let alone intimacy. You can count them by breaking your fingers. Because the opportunities are rare, you can cherish them. Every time you can have sex with yourself. After cohabitation, there is a person beside my pillow every day who makes his heart ripple. I think that TA will be my person in the future. I will stay together every day. Without the freshness of love, I will be tired. When I mention the shame, I will be tired instead of full of passion.
Marriage is the most important test for couples to live together. Road is still long, and line and treasure, management and tolerance and tolerance.