A share from Haimei: some people say that the longer a man is in love, the less he wants to marry you. Imagine why? Although there is love running for more than ten years in the entertainment industry, after all, you are not Shen Teng. It is estimated that you have run away for a long time. Therefore, girls should reflect on this time~
1. Fear of marriage
Love for a long time, the man is not willing to marry you, not because he does not love you enough, maybe he has a fear of marriage, not into the marriage of ideological preparation. In modern society, the divorce rate is rising rapidly, and people no longer trust marriage. In the past, I thought that marriage could last long and let the other party stay with him all the time, but now all kinds of temptations are everywhere. No matter men or women can resist the temptation to cheat. Sometimes men see their friends get married and leave, and they start to fear marriage.
2. Not prepared mentally
Don't think men will get excited when you suddenly say you want to get married. You said so suddenly, like a sudden attack on a man.
Love is not the same as marriage. If a man wants to get married, you should give him enough mental preparation, not surprise him. Otherwise, it's easy for men to be scared away by you.
Before you propose to marry him, you may as well give him more time to prepare for his thoughts. For example, he often mentions some of his family's happiness after marriage, and so on. Give him a hint and find out whether he is ready to get married.
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3. Fear of commitment
Don't think men are brave enough. In fact, men are cowardly. Many men are afraid of commitment. They are afraid to be responsible for their commitment. Cells that don't want to be responsible are basically the same as male hormones, rooted in male genes. The difference is that some men are more, some men are less.
Marriage means commitment. It means that you should treat this person well, treat her well, and stay with her for the rest of your life. This commitment is too long-term, like a shackle, tied him, men don't want to take his life so quickly.
4. Afraid of changing your life style
People are reluctant to change their habits. If you don't understand, look at your colleagues who complain about their work but still don't change jobs. Because I've been used to it for many years, it takes some time to adapt to a sudden change, and many people don't want to change their life style casually.
Marriage means that the two people want to live together, more likely to live together as a family. Mother in law and daughter in law, illegitimate
Problems such as living came one after another. You have to adapt to each other's bad habits, love each other seems to be all good, but not necessarily after marriage. If a man has decided to change his lifestyle, he is ready to get married.
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5. Don't want to give up the whole forest
Many men are very playful, he can have many girlfriends and many sexual partners, but his wife can only have one. Many men are reluctant to let him give up the whole forest and enter the tomb of marriage.
Although not all men like to have three wives and four concubines, it is an indisputable fact that marriage means giving up the right to choose.
As for you, the whole street is full of famous boutiques. Would you like to enter only one of them in your life? So a man would rather bear you alone than the whole forest.
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6. Too much pressure
Love is a matter for two people. You can go out for a big meal every day, or you can go out crazy every night. You can do the moonlight clan & hellip; & hellip; marriage, which is the business of two families.
When you are in love, you don't look at your family, you don't look at your savings. You just feel like you're together. But marriage is not the same, you may pay more attention to both sides, when the right time to be your wife.
You don't have to bear too much when you are in love, but it's different after marriage. After marriage, you have to shoulder the responsibility of the whole family. Now most of the post-80s generation are only children. You and your husband and wife have to shoulder the heavy responsibility of supporting four elderly people. This is a heavy burden. It's too much pressure.
7. I don't love you
If none of the above is the reason why your boyfriend doesn't want to marry you, there is only one, that is, he doesn't love you at all. People's sense of responsibility is getting lower and lower. In the past, it is like a laughing stock now. Whoever says so represents the old-fashioned.
If a man loves you enough, he will never escape. He will be more nervous than you, hoping to pull you into the palace of marriage and make you the only one. If he loves you enough, he will take all the responsibilities and love you for a lifetime.
Please don't evade this topic. Now many men are holding a playful attitude towards their feelings and have no intention of getting married. If you find that your man is such a devil, I advise you to break up early and find your own happiness. Although such a choice is painful, it is more reliable than wasting one's youth.