There is a famous dialogue in ancient Chinese.
How can I be bullied by my humble son
Shide said with a smile: "just bear with him, let him, avoid him, let him, bear with him, respect him and ignore him. In a few years, you will see him. In fact, such Zen language contains many philosophy of life, and tolerance is a very important philosophy of life.
At least three people should be forgiven in one's life.
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You have to forgive yourself
In this world, nine out of ten things are not as good as life. Without perfection, people have mistakes and things they can't reach, and they can't be recognized by everyone.
When you are immersed in self blame for a long time, life will become pessimistic. The same mistakes will not disappear, but will appear more frequently in your life. Therefore, you should always smile and tolerate yourself.
You have to forgive your enemies
In a competitive modern society, you don't know when you will have one more enemy.
Especially in today's social work pressure is increasing, it is inevitable that some people have different ideas with you. They may talk about you behind their backs, slander you and regard you as the enemy.
Even if you are a man who is aloof from the world, but trouble will come to you. What should you do then?
Do you want to be as narrow-minded as the enemy, or do you always remember that some people have framed you?
Treat it with a tolerant heart, because your anger will only affect yourself and your family, not others.
You should thank your enemies, because those ugliness can make you cherish the beauty of life more, will let you know more about what you want happiness.
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You have to forgive your friends
Because in your search for happiness, the closer your friend may be, the greater the harm to you. However, the harm of a friend to you may be unintentional, or the impulse aroused by jealousy.
So you have to forgive your friends, because they have given you help and happiness.
Life, nothing is unforgivable.
Let us learn tolerance in life. When life is at a low ebb, we should learn to open another window, perhaps there will be more beautiful scenery.