A sharing from Haimei: most of the love comes from friendship. Now it has become a fashion for women to pursue men. After all, women are more likely to succeed if they take the initiative. When you say to him one day that you want your feelings to be beyond friendship, he may have a reserved look and say 'I don't want to destroy our friendship'. Then you should not hold any hope.
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1. I don't want to ruin our friendship
Most of love comes from friendship. Now it has become a fashion for women to pursue men. After all, women are more likely to succeed if they take the initiative. When you say to him one day that you want your feelings to be beyond friendship, he may have a reserved look and say 'I don't want to destroy our friendship'. Then you should not hold any hope.
Any man will be close to you and don't care about breaking up 'friendship'. He can't be afraid to chase you because of his shyness and inferiority. His only fear is that he is so indifferent to you. He won't know how to contact your mobile phone, email, unless he doesn't want to find you, unless he doesn't love you!
2. I'm busy
'I'm so busy that I forget' I often hear men say that in love. But is he really busy?
'busy' is the most commonly used excuse for a man. Whether he is dating or socializing with others, a busy word can be a good way to deal with his girlfriend. Sometimes he said that busy means he is doing something he doesn't want you to know. Sometimes, busy just means that he didn't put your agreement at ease and completely forgot. If he really loves you, he won't forget, because forgetting means he doesn't care about your disappointment. 'busy' is a weapon of mass destruction in love. It's synonymous with 'jerk'. A jerk is the person who perfunctorily perfunctorily with your busy. Do you think he still loves you?
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3. I'm tired
When you ask for love, he says' I'm tired '. You are hit hard, thinking that he must be tired before he ignores you. But my friends, when he was in love at that time, he was so energetic that he couldn't meet his requirements twice a night. Is he really old? Is he no longer energetic?
4. We are still young
You urge him to get married. He says' we are still young ', and lists a lot of reasons for not getting married. What's the reason why you don't have a career at present, and you will spend a lot of money after marriage & hellip; & hellip; many high sounding reasons seem to be thinking for you, but don't be fooled by men's external appearance.
Many people may have experienced or seen such an example: when a couple has been in love for N years, they all think they are about to get married, but suddenly they break up, and then one of them marries someone else like lightning. The other side may have to be deeply distressed and puzzled: why can't we 'blossom and bear fruit' after so many years of feelings and efforts? At this time, someone needs to give you a slap at the head: please, don't torture yourself any more. If you haven't been together for so many years, it can only prove that he really doesn't love you. He just didn't meet someone who really wanted to get married. So, it's not that you are still young, and it's not that the time is not ripe. It's that he doesn't love you anymore, and he doesn't want to marry you.
Sex is also a man's pleasure in sex. If a man casually perfunctory you in the sex, even find an excuse to shirk, then only proved that he no longer love you.
5. I just got divorced. I want to take my time
You are not the only woman around him. You don't know his inner world and what position you are in his heart. He says to you, 'I just got divorced and I want to take my time' & hellip; & hellip;
Just divorced men really need a period of time to accept another relationship, but this does not mean that he can act recklessly, can play with feelings, ambiguous. If he likes you, he won't be ambiguous and will announce the ownership of you. When is the time to slow down? When is he going to accept a relationship again, are you sure that the person with him is still you? If he uses this excuse to explain the ambiguity between him and others, please automatically translate it into 'I just want to kill time with you.' I don't love you '.
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6. I had too much to drink
'he drank too much', 'it was just an accident' and 'he was careless' & hellip; & hellip; when you find out that a man has betrayed you, these are the best excuses. How much do you believe?
There is no excuse for betrayal. Betrayal can't happen by accident. He can't say 'Oh, I fell down accidentally and fell on someone else's bed'. Knowing that this kind of infidelity will destroy the rules in love, you can imagine where the position in his mind is, you should throw him away directly.
7. You don't mind
You see him frowning every day, concerned to ask what is making him so worried, but he said 'you don't care' and refused you thousands of miles away. This sentence is like a knife, which is painful and even more chilling.
Don't think he doesn't want you to worry about this. A man who really loves you wants you to be integrated into his life, to give some suggestions and help to his career and life. He doesn't want you to interfere in his life because he doesn't want you to interfere in his life because he doesn't love you anymore.
8. I went out to relax
Men always like to play hide and seek with you, play missing. When you can't see him on email and QQ, when you call to say shut down, when you call the office to ask for leave, you are very worried. You've tried every means, but you still can't find him. After a period of time, he suddenly appeared in front of you, saying that he was out to relax. No matter how much you cross examine him, he is going out for relaxation as the reason for his disappearance.
Don't spend a lot of energy on solving the mystery of the missing man. No matter you find all kinds of evidence and excuses to comfort yourself, the only truth is that he doesn't want to be with you any more and he doesn't have the courage to tell you clearly. Believe it, there is no secret he is not worthy of you.
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9. It's hard for me to do
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the first problem to be solved in marriage, which is often the cause of many marriages breaking down. Men are like that double-sided adhesive tape, one side is a wife, the other side is mom, both sides can not be provoked, it is not easy to do.
At first marriage, a man will generally stand on his wife's side and say a few words for himself in front of his mother, so as to slow down the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. When one day he says impatiently, 'it's hard for me to do it', you should be careful, because he may not have you in his heart. He must be tired of the role of double-sided adhesive tape. He is very tired. He thinks he can change his wife, but his mother can't change it.
10. You're annoying
Nagging is a woman's nature, and you'll feel that you care about him by saying more. At the beginning, he would be happy to ask him what you would like to ask. But one day, he said, 'you're so upset'!
At the same time, you should be alert that he may not love you. If he really loves you, he will slowly share with you the little things in his life, saying that you are tired of you and do not love you, he does not want to say a few more words with you.
You know clearly that he is rejecting you, deceiving you and delaying you & hellip; & hellip; you are still wishful thinking that as long as you have more patience, more accommodation, more space and more time & hellip; & hellip; a man will change sooner or later, and he will be 'influenced' or 'transformed' by his love sooner or later. In fact, no matter what form of avoidance, it's all bullshit, because there is only one truth: he doesn't love you, wake up quickly.