Parents are the children's first teachers. In fact, some of the children's behaviors also imply how parents usually do at home and how children have a bad temper? On the way to improve bad temper, parents should often try to ask themselves a few questions: my child is not as good as others' children, am I not as good as other parents? Or I didn't see the good of my own children? What mistakes have I forgiven in dealing with children? What shortcomings can you laugh at? Is it important to set a good example for children, or is it important for me to export evil? Compared with those children who are born disabled or seriously ill in hospital, my children have complete limbs and are in good health. Is this the reward he has given me?
-Take a walk-
From a psychological point of view, a child's anger is a manifestation of psychological needs. With the development of physiology and psychology, infants begin to contact more things. Their correct understanding of these things is impossible to make rational analysis and decision-making like adults. They all participate with their own emotions and interests, although these things are often unfavorable, unfavorable or harmful to them. Therefore, when the baby encounters setbacks or discomfort, it's natural to express it by losing his temper, such as throwing things or pulling his mother's hair. But such behavior can only occur occasionally, and can not be used as a habit of the baby.
Take a walk. When you are in a bad mood, changing the environment will improve your mood. The most relaxing thing is the fresh air. Take the baby out for a walk, even if it's a little cold outside, it doesn't matter, just wear warm. Taking a walk outdoors can make your baby clear headed and enjoy the natural scenery. At the same time, it can also let you relax for a while. Don't rush to emphasize 'correction' and 'discipline' to your children. Walking for 30 minutes can make the whole person 'restart'!
-Tell a story-
There is a general psychological growth process for babies about two years old, which is characterized by self-centered, losing temper when something goes wrong, throwing toys, and waving fists when they have trouble with children. In fact, these are normal, because this is the first psychological resistance period for children, and it is a necessary growth process for almost all babies around the age of two. It's just that some babies are obvious, some are not.
Reading in bed, when the baby shows the symptoms of temper, you can move a stack of his favorite books. In this way, you will know whether she needs your attention or it's time to divert her attention. If she wants to stay with you for a while, you can ask her to come to mom and dad's room to hold her for a while. You can lie in bed and turn through books together. If she wants to be alone for a while, you can also put the book at the head of her bed, set a timer and tell her that you will come and listen to her story later.
-Take a nap-
With the growth of the baby, the number of frustration increases. When the baby is about five or six years old, the phenomenon of losing his temper will gradually improve. As the saying goes, 'seven or eight years old dog hate', when the baby grows to seven or eight years old, parents will find this bad temper rise. In fact, when a child is seven or eight years old, his curiosity is the strongest stage. He likes to tear down the alarm clock and is almost paranoid to get to the bottom of the matter. It is only because of his strong thirst for knowledge. For pre adolescent children, girls are about 10-12 years old, boys are about 14-15 years old, and their emotions fluctuate greatly, often showing irritability, depression and anxiety.
Let the child take a nap. If hunger is not a problem, the trigger may be lack of sleep. Babies need to rest for a long time. They are always reluctant to go to bed to play for a while, but their bodies actually need 12-14 hours of sleep every 24 hours. Take a look at the schedule of the past few days. If you don't have a lot of things to do, you might as well arrange more lunch breaks for your handsome boys or beautiful girls. Before the child's temper attacks, try to keep them in a quiet state and coax them to lie down for a nap.
For a detached soul, what can make him upset to lose his manners? The sublimation of the realm can not easily ascend to heaven, but needs a little practice. When we can be open-minded and tolerant of one person or one thing, we have unconsciously begun to have no resentment towards the world. The chest without temper can be full of positive energy of education.