Nowadays, people are always worried about things one by one and the good or bad quality of people. All these worries are caused by the distrust between people.
I remember once I saw such an article in a magazine. It said that in an interview with a company, many people saw an old man fall to the ground, but they pretended not to see him one by one. Only a young man in plain clothes came forward and helped the old man up. In the end, the young man was admitted, It turned out that the old man was the chairman of the company, and the interview began the moment the old man fell. It was because the young man helped the old man, the old man had trust in the young man and shortened the distance between his heart and soul, so the young people were admitted.
I still remember the first time I started to communicate with my good friends. When I was in primary school, my academic performance was not very outstanding. I got only more than 60 points in a Chinese exam. At that time, I was very depressed and hoped that someone could comfort or encourage me, but no one noticed me. Only he noticed me. After school, he took the initiative to go with me and said a lot of words to comfort and encourage me, I had confidence in him at that time. Later, we became the iron brothers envied by everyone in the class. Later, I asked him why he came to comfort me at that time. He said he didn't know why, but I felt that I needed other people's comfort at that time. Although he is casual, it is because of his carelessness that we become iron friends.
I remember when I first elected the monitor of the primary school, I just came to Chongqing. I didn't know any of the students in the class. At that time, I felt a trace of panic and felt very lonely. At that time, our current monitor came forward to greet and talk with me. At the time he greeted me, it seemed that a bridge had been built between me and his mind, The fundamental reason for building this bridge is trust. He and I are now friends who have nothing to say. I voted for him when I elected monitor at that time. composition
Only if there is trust between each of us, we can shorten the distance between people's hearts and build a beautiful and reliable spiritual bridge between people. The bridge of mind has a long history, rolling eastward. We have passed the Changbanpo of Dangyang fierce battle and the Lugou Bridge of humiliating history. But has anyone noticed the damage of the bridge of mind? It is invisible, it is tangible.
Nuwa made people, is so simple, people at the beginning, the nature is good. But with the passage of years, the simple folk customs are also passing. Communication between people is connected by heart, but when the heart bridge is mixed with some 'forged' products, such as suspicion and selfishness, it will no longer be strong.
In today's society, some people try their best to prevent people. Without heart to heart communication and magnanimous mind, the bridge of the soul has been cast a shadow. There is a story that a young college student found a good job with excellent achievements. After entering the office, he was very happy and moved by the enthusiasm of his colleagues. He worked hard and his performance was getting better and better, but he found that the enthusiasm of his colleagues was greatly reduced. Finally one day, he was' fired '. The reason is the 'enthusiasm' of colleagues. The novice is so excellent. There are only two kinds of impressions to the superiors: one is the high working level of the novice, the other is that other staff do not contribute to work, and a kind of jealousy makes a talent buried. We need to think deeply: can't anyone in the world be better than us? What is the folk custom? Treachery? Simplicity? Some people say that people can't bear to cheat each other; Others say that as long as you are smart, it doesn't matter if others play tricks & hellip& hellip;
God has given us life and a sincere heart. Don't let the bridge of the soul cast a shadow, open the door of the soul, use sincerity as the bridge foundation, friendship as the bridge deck and communication as the bridge fence, so that the beautiful rainbow like bridge of the soul can be presented to the world, and the world can be wonderful because of the 'bridge' and harmonious because of the 'bridge'! composition
The haze on the 'soul bridge' is scattered and combined, only between our thoughts. I believe that as long as we have sincerity and communication, the bridge of mind will show a beautiful posture, break through the darkness before dawn and welcome the coming of light, just like the rainbow after the rain, the rainbow runs through the sun! What is the bridge of mind?
Yes! What is a bridge? Who would consider this question?
Mao Yisheng, a famous bridge scientist, has carefully considered this problem. He said, "the bridge is just a bench. There is a board on both legs, and the board can bear the weight. Enlarge the bench and 'cross' a river or a valley to form a bridge. "
no The bridge is not so simple! No, by no means! composition
If so, what is the soul bridge? Therefore, it is not simple.
The bridge has a long history. There is an invisible bridge between people, between people and animals, and between animals and animals. This bridge has a long history. composition
In ancient times, people's communication had no problems. That's because they built a bridge between them - this bridge is their way of communication. On this bridge, people have attached many, such as family affection, love and friendship.
Why do some people treat life very optimistic and smile at everyone; And someone is depressed all day? This is how the bridge works. It can transport happiness and cultivate sentiment.
When each of us is designing our own bridge, 'heart to heart' is the backbone of the bridge. It is the emotions between people that improve it.
Build a bridge of mind to make people understand more; Build a bridge of hearts and let people love each other more; Build a bridge of hearts and let people trust each other more; Set up a bridge of mind to make people more tolerant; The bridge of the soul is the main road of emotional transportation, the link of soul dancing, the connection of beauty and the eternity of love.
Let's open our hearts and build a strong and beautiful bridge of hearts together. But let the heart meet on the bridge of the soul! Set up the bridge of mind. The bridge is an enlarged bench and a walking channel; Bridge is a shortcut to improve efficiency; Bridge is also a link and a tool to communicate people's hearts.
In fact, in everyone's heart, there is a base for repairing the bridge. Some have repaired it, some have forgotten it, and even some have never paid attention to it. Therefore, some people's hearts are enriched, while others' hearts are always vacant; So there is goodness in the world? Really? The difference of evil. So for those who haven't built the bridge, listen to the sound of the hearts of those who are building the bridge - Ding, Dong, Dong, like a happy and full symphony.
Please listen to me and build a bridge for yourself!
Build a bridge of love. What you need is compassion, altruism, sincere laughter and kind encouragement & hellip& hellip; In this way, your bridge of love has broken ground! Ding Ding, bang bang! When your bridge of love is connected to other people's hearts like the Internet, you succeed. Please remember: help others in good faith, cast a sincere smile, stretch out your hand, pull the people who have gone astray, open your arms and enter the blue sky of others; Share your happiness and influence your family with love? classmate? friend? stranger. composition
In this way, the psychological index starts to upgrade, the moral index is added by one star, and the heat is 20 ℃
Then, build a bridge of friendship. You need a bridge of love, cherish, understand, contribute, miss and appreciate. Then we can start work. This time, we will build a heart-shaped overpass on the bridge of love. It may be a little difficult, but if you are a conscientious person, if you have perseverance, you can build it. After completion, we need to connect it with the bridge of love, and then connect it to the 'network' of the bridge. Then, our bridge of friendship is completed. You need: cherish love, family affection, friendship, teacher-student affection, etc., spare no effort to contribute to your friendship, greet everyone with your true feelings, and share their joy and sadness. In this way, your bridge of friendship can be activated. composition
The higher the psychological index, the higher the moral index plus two stars, heat: 60 ℃
On this basis, we began to build a 'bridge of tolerance and acceptance'. Of course, you need the bridge of friendship, the bridge of love, bona, the sea and the sky, a broad mind, a heroic spirit and a mind of forgiving others. Then, build it from the heart of the bridge of love, along the edges and corners of the bridge of friendship, until it contains those edges and corners, and then we can directly connect it to the network. Of course, you should treat all things in the world with tolerance, forgive others for unintentional harm, abandon selfishness and narrow-minded, and let others enter your own sky & hellip& hellip; After all this, the "bridge of tolerance and acceptance" began to be activated. However, there may be a small error in this process: the system will tell you: 'file incomplete'. Don't worry, this is because we missed the 'yuanze. Exe' program -- our tolerance can't tolerate intentional harm. Then, as long as you say, 'I want the principle', the system will run as usual and automatically access the network.
After completion, Congratulations, psychological index full score; Moral index: five stars (full grid); Heat: 100 ℃
You have successfully built three 'soul bridges' and connected them to the network. They will be upgraded automatically, but pay attention to the maintenance of the bridge.
When you successfully build the bridge of mind, you will find that you are being accepted by people, you are entering everyone's group, and your self-cultivation is constantly improving & hellip& hellip;
Gao Kefei, Grade 8, Zhangwan Town Central School, Xiangyang District, Xiangfan City, is a user's original article. Reprinting without permission is prohibited! To build a bridge of hearts, it is essential for people to communicate with each other, as well as heart to heart communication. However, people are not born to have a close relationship with others, so we need to build a bridge of hearts together.
Family bridge
"Hua La, Hua La", the rain kept falling, and my mood was like the sky, covered with dark clouds. When I went out in the morning, the sky was cloudless. I was extremely disappointed after a quarrel with my father. Sitting in the classroom, I watched my classmates being picked up by my parents, and I looked sad and thought, will my father pick me up when my mother is not at home today? Just as I was thinking, a familiar figure came into my eyes. My father came towards me with a wet umbrella. I was walking on the road with my father under the same umbrella, but I saw my father's shoulders wet. Somehow, my eyes were wet. The rain fell on my father's shoulder, but it flowed into my heart.
Rain is a family bridge, which brings me closer to my father. composition
Friendship bridge
"I know, I have a pair of invisible wings that can fly me over despair." sitting in a strange classroom, a song came into my ears. With the song, I found its owner, a tall girl with Qi banger cut. Her thick eyebrows and big eyes couldn't be blocked by her pink framed glasses. Unconsciously, I sat in her seat