1. Puppy love
The word "puppy love" is a sensitive topic in our middle school students' hearts and eyes. Mom and dad always say that our generation of children are precocious, mature too early, and very complex.
precocious? Complex? No, I don't think so. When people talk about the topic of "puppy love", they will always talk about "love", and then the issue of "sex" will be involved.
In biology class on Friday, we have a physiology class on the reproductive system of men and women. It was a normal physiological class, but most of the students in our class were not precocious at all. Some of them snicker below, some of them dare not lift their heads after the biology teacher hangs up the color wall chart, just casually turning the book, and some of them are blushing and whispering with their classmates. Can we say that we are precocious? If you are precocious, you should have known all this.
Just like flowers are blooming and willows are green, it's normal for us in adolescence to have a tendency of puppy love. But what teachers and parents have done is to stifle and suppress, which is impossible. The correct way is to guide properly. Of course, we should also adjust and grasp ourselves.
During the winter vacation, my mother bought me a Book of puppy love written by Xiao Fuxing. I took it to school, which led to many misunderstandings. They said I was precocious and complicated. But can't they deal with the problem properly? This book properly guides us to correctly deal with the problem of puppy love. Why do we avoid this topic like a plague? Some students come to borrow my book. What's their mood? be curious? peaceful? Or watching the crowd?
Puppy love itself is a kind of beautiful feeling, but it's just like an apple that doesn't grow ripe. At this time, eating it will be astringent. The best time to pick it is to wait for it to grow ripe.
On puppy love
The topic of our youth, whether it is teachers, parents or ourselves, is nothing more talked about and concerned than puppy love.
Teachers and parents have always believed that the child of puppy love is learning to be bad, rebellious, crushing their expectations and giving to him; in order to make their children better, they should prohibit the child from puppy love and regard it as forbidden fruit, which is more serious when the child steals the forbidden fruit than when Eve steals the immortal fruit.
Teachers, parents and children are just like standing on a balance. They both stand on the extreme. Their positions are so firm that the balance is always balanced, but no one pays attention to the cracks on the beam connecting the left and right sides of the balance.
Puppy love, for us in adolescence, is reasonable but unreasonable. Everyone wants to try this bitter but tempting fruit, but no one has thought about the consequences of trying. It is precisely because adults have experienced and realized this that they forbid us to try, but they have missed a step. It is precisely because we have not experienced it that we do not understand it, and it is because we do not understand it that we are eager to try.
It's a kind of love that makes people feel tender and unpredictable. It has nothing to do with my achievements. It is with the sustenance of the soul that we should express ourselves.
However, I prefer Chen Ming's sentence in the rainy season of flowering season. He said, "I believe that when I succeed in my career, happiness will come quietly."
Puppy love is like the dance music of youth, we laugh and dance happily, full of vigor and vitality of our youth; adult love is like a waltz, mature and stable without losing the sense of flexibility, just right, when dancing waltz, we should pay special attention to the rhythm, because of the sense of rhythm, so the twisted waist is more charming.
I see puppy love
In today's society, juvenile puppy love is common.
These puppy love teenagers pass notes in class all day, and go out to Internet cafes and game halls together after school. After the holiday, the two are still dating in the park square and other places, and some don't go home in the middle of the night. When a woman has a grudge against someone, she will ask her boyfriend to beat that person up and vent her anger Puppy love has become a social problem.
All day long, I just want to think about when I can buy these gifts for my lovers and what time I can meet them I don't focus on study at all. As a result, a large number of teenagers with good academic performance become poor students in the class because they are addicted to puppy love. There are many such examples around me. Take my good friend m Jun for example! He was one of the best students in the class and a "good example" in the eyes of his classmates. His teachers and parents also gave him great expectations. But later, after a friend's introduction, I got to know my girlfriend. From then on, he didn't focus on his studies, but only wanted to fall in love. His grades plummeted from the top to the bottom. The teacher talked to him many times, and his parents broke his heart for him, but he was still indifferent, which shows the great harm of puppy love.
We should correctly handle the relationship between male and female students, but we should not ignore the opposite sex students. Male and female students can also discuss problems with each other and play games together It is absolutely necessary to keep a pure friendship with students of the opposite sex.
For our bright future, we should correctly handle the relationship between male and female students, put our energy into study, study hard, strive for goals and dreams.
Talk about puppy love
I'm against puppy love, but I hope everyone has a puppy love. You may not understand this. Ha ha, listen to me slowly.
Why can't people in puppy love understand well? Why does puppy love always fail? What's wrong with puppy love? We have a destiny! In this regard, my view is: people in puppy love are not mature enough and have a short vision. They only know that they are very happy together now, and there is no contradiction, so they firmly believe that they are made for each other. After a long time, they will gradually find that there are many subjective and objective loopholes in their feelings. For example: one side is hot tempered, and the other side happens to be very impatient. This is rarely found in love, even if it is found, it may not pay attention to it, because people in love rarely give up because they realize that they can't. So people in love are confident that their love is perfect
At this point, looking back, why do I want everyone to fall in love again?
As I said, there are some things that people will never understand without experiencing. Just as parents attach great importance to their children's learning, especially the depressed parents, they are now suffering a loss. Only when they are down, can they understand that they should really study hard. In the same way, it's not good to say how bad puppy love is to young people now. Who believes it? So, let each of them go through it once, just once, it may make him / her mature. It was in a so-called "lovelorn" that I woke up and became mature overnight. There are some things that people can't understand without experiencing.
But who knows Failure once, mature, sensible, of course good. But can some people bear the lessons of failure? Some people If you fail once, you will never get up again. Just like those who are impulsive and short sighted
We should not do some stupid things because of you. What we should do now is to study hard and enrich our own connotation. Don't let ourselves regret in the future!
On puppy love
When children enter adolescence, puppy love is inevitable, and so am I. Do you know what love is? What's the point of falling in love at your age? " I hate his questioning tone, so I'm not going to answer it. He then said, "what do you want to be in love for at your age? A few words of comfort when you are not happy? Can I give you something to eat from time to time? You just think it's fun, don't you? That will only spoil you, especially your girls. " I really don't understand why he must treat our love so vulgar and dirty. Just like he doesn't understand why we fall in love, maybe it's the generation gap. "Be realistic!" He said, "I was in a relationship with a woman and wanted to get married, but her father said that I couldn't give her happiness, so she broke up with me decisively. There was no money at that time! I see through it. I plan to get married at the age of 40. If I have money, it will be fun. If you don't have much money, you'll get married at 30. Reality is a cruel child
Shouldn't we, adolescent children, live between childishness and maturity? Shouldn't we have a beautiful dream and a vision of happy love? Why deprive us of this simple idea? Just like when we were children, we would like to have prince charming. Even if adults say that it is not necessarily prince who rides a white horse, don't we still hope that? If we avoid this stage and this journey, we will regret it when we get old. Because life is to be down-to-earth, step by step, out of their own wonderful, it is meaningful, isn't it?
The love in my heart is to be able to stay with the people I like, trust each other, support and tolerate each other. And like, is that you clearly know each other's shortcomings, but can not avoid the feeling of want to be with each other.
It's true that puppy love is prone to deviant behavior, but it's only easy, not inevitable. We should prevent the deviant behavior of puppy love, but it is totally incorrect to deny their love in front of teenagers, which will only arouse their rebellious psychology and develop in a more wrong direction.
Is puppy love wrong
Puppy love is a common behavior in social life. Whether it is middle school students, primary school students or high school students, most of them are "talking" now. Puppy love may be right, maybe wrong, he has been wandering, should stand on that side.
Like is one of the most beautiful and simple to pay, like is also a precious and rare happiness.
Puppy love is between minors and adults, most of which occur in minors. Puppy love is in the rebellious age for us to try, for us in adolescence is more curious, we are still relatively simple. The things are too simple, but the reality is on the contrary, intrigue and intrigue. We clearly know why these are wrong, some people will say: "this is just to find an emotional sustenance." And some people will stubbornly say: "if you want to be wrong, you should be wrong in the end." I think the first one can be accepted.
In my opinion, puppy love does not affect performance, but brings motivation to study. Love is a feeling of happiness, fascinating, motivating, passionate and charming. It is with the sustenance of the soul, so to express themselves, love, happy, happy, in a good mood, learning will have motivation, will have the heart to learn, seriously learn, so I think love brings motivation to learning.
Puppy love, in the eyes of parents, is a stumbling block on their children's success. No matter how you explain it, it will not be recognized. My parents just want us to study hard and have fun when we grow up