Attitude determines life after reading

Article 1: mentality determines life. After reading the book "mentality determines everything", I was greatly inspired in thought. I think only by adjusting a good attitude can we have a better state to restrict ourselves to work harder. In the face of different situations, we should use a good attitude to get good results. On the contrary, we can only fail. Those who succeed also use a good attitude to deal with success and failure, so as to reach the other side of the ideal in the ocean of life. In front of work, mentality determines everything. There is no unimportant work, only people who don't pay attention to work. Different mentality makes different lives. What kind of mentality will produce what kind of behavior, which determines different results. Mentality is character plus attitude. Character is a person's unique and stable personality performance characteristics. It shows a person's psychological understanding of reality and the corresponding habitual behavior. Attitude is a person's psychological reaction to objective things. Therefore, only a good attitude can have excellent work performance. In the face of success, mentality determines everything. "A person who walks slowly, as long as he does not lose his goal, also walks faster than a person who wanders aimlessly.". Therefore, life is sometimes unfair. However, the door of hope is always open to everyone. When a person focuses his life and energy on one point, he may make a career that surprises himself. Then the foundation of success must be a good attitude. It is undeniable that there are such problems in everyone's psychology. For example, I feel too good about myself and dare not expose my ignorance in learning; Do not consider creating convenience for others; Putting too much emphasis on personal interests; Always want short-term effects; Lack of obedience consciousness; Will not make any self-criticism. There are people with these mentality, I believe he will never succeed. On the contrary, those who pursue success just choose a positive optimization mentality and achieve unexpected success under an extremely good mentality. This state of mind and realm is worth learning and pursuing by each of us. However, what we can tell you is that the adjustment and purification of state of mind can not be replaced by others. This is a subjective and autonomous action, not an objective and passive idea. Others can only guide but not do it for us. Only when the correct attitude comes out of the negative ideas can we have a positive attitude to complete our goals and work. In other words, when "only ask for cultivation, not about harvest", God will quietly prepare the harvest for you. Chapter 2: "it's difficult to be a man, it's difficult to do things". Ninety nine of 100 people will sigh like this. Of these 99 people, at least 10 even lamented that "it is difficult to be a man and do things". The reason why these people have the above ideas is due to the lack of a positive attitude. In fact, whether you are a person or doing things, you need to maintain a good attitude. Without a good attitude, it is certainly difficult to be a person and do things. A good attitude towards life and work - 66 details that determine the success or failure of life is a good friend. It can give you a toast and tell you the truth of life and work in your depressed, boring, lonely, painful and unspeakable confused state. Let you experience what is courage, what is love, what is success, as well as applause, flowers and the fun of being a man. There is a passage in the book that I can't forget for a long time after reading. Now I give it to you. I hope we can resonate. "Each of us will have a lot of" babies ", but you can't get everything. At some time, you must learn to hold it up and put it down. Holding it up is courage, holding it down is magnanimity, holding it up is valuable, and holding it down is detachment. The greatest admiration in life is holding it up, and the greatest comfort in life is holding it down." this is my favorite passage in this book, This is also a manifestation of a good attitude. Whether the attitude is positive or not has become the key to measure the success or failure of everyone's life. Psychologists believe that a person with a good attitude is like a live fish, who can freely invite tourists in the ocean of society, family and life. Then, what is a good attitude to behave and do things? The book explains this: a good attitude is: when your girlfriend or wife makes trouble without reason, what I say is like throwing abuse on the street. You should apologize to her humbly; And you have to regret yourself, and you have to pat your head and swear that we will go to the south when you say we go to the south! Let her realize that she was not a goddess just now; It's the witch who makes her feel how generous you are to her. To be a man, you should be magnanimous, face your life with a positive and optimistic attitude, and face all kinds of difficulties and problems you encounter, so that you can be happy. Speaking of the good attitude of being a man and doing things, today I also bring you a little story I like very much to share with every teacher here. A young woman threw herself into the river and was rescued by an old boatman in the river. The boatman asked, "you are young. Why are you short-sighted?" the young woman cried, "my husband abandoned me after two years of marriage, and then the child died. You said, what fun am I still alive?" the boatman asked, "how did you live two years ago?" the young woman said, "I was free and carefree at that time." "did you have a husband and children at that time?" "No." "well, you were just sent back by the ship of fate two years ago. Now you are free and carefree again." When the young woman heard the boatman's words, her heart suddenly brightened. She said goodbye to the boatman and jumped on the other side happily. People's mentality can be transformed anytime and anywhere. If a person thinks about happy things in his heart, he will become happy; if he thinks about sad things in his heart, his mood will become gray. There are quite a few successes or failures in life, happiness or ups and downs, happiness or sadness Points are caused by one's own state of mind. The highest state of life is happiness and enjoying it. Happiness is a positive attitude towards life. It looks at the surrounding world with a tolerant, receptive, open-minded and pleasant state of mind. People with an optimistic state of mind often distinguish the feeling of life from people's living state, and think that life is an experience and a psychological feeling, even people's life The situation has changed due to external factors. People can't change their living state through their own efforts. People can also adjust their psychological feelings through their own spiritual strength and try their best to adjust them to the best state. There are many good attitudes towards life and work, which can be summarized as: the attitude towards life should be "round", the so-called "round" It means to be optimistic, peaceful and comprehensive; the mentality of doing things should be "moist". The so-called "moist" means to be positive, diligent and flexible. The word "mellow" includes all the good mentality of being a man and doing things. There are a few words in the book "good intentions of being a man and doing things - 66 details that determine the success or failure of life" that also deeply penetrate into my heart. That is "believe that I can do it." We should organically connect these three sentences with our work and life. When doing things, we should first say to ourselves, "believe that we can do it." If a person doesn't believe in himself, can he expect others to believe you? Only people with strong self-confidence can withstand all kinds of tests, setbacks and failures, turn shortcomings into driving force for progress, and face everything with a tolerant heart. Then our life can really be called without defects. In addition, the book also warns us not to take success too complicated In fact, success is not as complex as we seem. Sometimes the simpler it is, the easier it is to succeed - although it sounds incredible. Sometimes we should keep our mind simple and do complex things in a simple way, which often leads to unexpected results. For example, sometimes we want to do things well at work, and often think about things It's very complicated, and even some people will choose some practices that harm the interests of others in order to succeed, which will only get twice the result with half the effort, harm others and not benefit themselves. I think the most basic principle when doing things is to do things in a down-to-earth manner, straighten out their mentality, and do their best to do things with an ordinary and simple mind. Whether they succeed or not, In the process of doing things, we will enjoy the joy of giving. At the same time, in the process of making efforts, we often have unexpected gains. For example, although I have made some achievements in participating in the Chinese course evaluation activity this semester, the preparation process is my greatest success and gain for me. Don't take success too complicated. Our task is to use one Be calm and try to do the best with a healthy attitude. This is the most important thing for everyone and the magic weapon to win. There is another sentence in the book, that is, "be an honest person." I agree with this sentence very much. The most basic criterion of being a person is integrity. Integrity means having a sense of responsibility, telling the truth and doing practical things. For anything, we have a peaceful mind and adhere to principles. Integrity is not only a virtue of being a person, but also a positive attitude of being a person. As a teacher, we should first set an example and be an honest person, so that we will not Only by violating one's conscience can one be worthy of "man" As a person living in today's society, each of us will face a lot of pressure. But work pressure is the most serious problem everyone faces. Therefore, this book also taught me to reduce pressure. Too much work pressure will not only crowd out happiness, but also related to the development of personal career, health, family harmony and many other life factors. Therefore, we should reduce pressure on our work. Only by getting rid of work pressure can we get relaxed. "So we should keep ourselves happy at work. In fact, work is work. It can never be full of novelty and joy like leisure vacation. The key is how you find and create happiness. As long as you really look for it, happiness will come. Happy work will make us forget the pressure of work. Think about things you don't like to do or difficult things in a different way. For example, most of us are afraid of growing old and others saying we are old. In fact, this is unnecessary. We can change the idea of getting old slowly into enjoying life, so that the physiological phenomenon of getting old will not be so terrible, and your mood will become relaxed, which will make you younger. Similarly, at work, we can regard work as a kind of self challenge and self-growth, and it is no longer imposed on you by others, so the pressure will become happiness. This book does not have any profound theory, but is a good friend. I believe it will bring happiness and relaxation to each of us. I hope each of our teachers can find their own happiness from this book. Enjoy life, enjoy life. Chapter 3: there is a wise man who wants to understand Heaven and hell, God first