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The baby asked the parents what the chickens were for and how to answer them cleverly

Curiosity is our nature. For babies, it's even more curious about the world. We should treat these curious questions reasonably and answer these questions reasonably. What strange questions will babies ask? Share with you.

No1: do girls grow chickens?

Children under 3 years old: No, girls have vaginas, no chickens.

Children aged 3-6: the boy's chickens are called penises, which are relatively large and grow outside the body. And the girl's "chicken" is flat. From the outside, it's just a gap. The other parts are hidden in the body and can't be seen from the outside.

Children over 6 years old: no matter what name you first used at home to explain the sexual organs to the child, when the child reaches the age of school, please use the regular name to tell him.

Special advice: we usually tell girls "you don't have chickens", but the concept of "no" sometimes makes girls feel inferior. So the ideal explanation is that girls have it, just different from boys.

NO2: will my chest be bulging?

Children under 3 years old: Yes, you will when you grow up.

Children aged 3-6: tell her the scientific name of "breast" is called "breast". All girls will grow up with bigger breasts, some will be bigger, some will be smaller. The woman who has just had a baby will have milk in her breast, which is the "rice" of her baby. So when you become a mother, you will have milk to feed your baby.

Special advice: tell your daughter about her infancy, which helps her understand that when she was very young, she got milk from her mother's breasts.

No3: where am I from?

Children under 3 years old: you can point to the belly and say to him that the child grew up in the womb of the mother. When meeting a pregnant aunt outside, let him have a look.

3-6-year-old: he may ask how you came out. You can say that he came out of a special channel, which is called vagina. If it's a girl, you can tell her that the vagina is behind the hole for urination; if it's a boy, there's no need to explain more. He may also ask how you got into your stomach. You can explain that when a man and a woman fall in love, they all want to get closer to each other, and the sperm of the man will enter into the woman's body to combine with the egg and grow up in it. Usually, children before the age of six will accept this statement. You can cooperate with some picture books at the same time, which can easily explain the process.

Children over 6 years old: if he still doesn't understand the meaning of "close to each other", you can tell him that his father's penis will enter his mother's vagina and send sperm there.

Special advice: when answering this question, you must be frank. In this way, you will find that your child will soon be satisfied with your answers.

No4: what is love?

Children under 4: love is when two people are very happy together and never want to be apart.

4-6 years old: you can tell him some feelings. For example, people in love will think that the person they love is too good, so they hope to be with him forever. When I think of that person, wait for that person, especially when I am about to see that person, I will be very happy. Therefore, adults in love are very excited and excited, just like children who are going to have a birthday party tomorrow.

Special advice: children aged 5-6 may be in marriage sensor, so you can calmly ask the children, do you think which child in kindergarten is particularly good? Maybe he'd like to talk to you.

No5: what do you do with sanitary napkins?

Children under 3 years old: tell his mother to be more hygienic.

3-6-year-old: you can say that every month, the mother will flow some blood out of the body, which is very normal and generally does not hurt. In order to catch the blood, do not flow everywhere, you need to use sanitary napkins, they can absorb the blood.

Children over 6 years old: you can talk about how menstruation is formed: there is a place like a nest in the mother's stomach called the uterus, where the baby grows. When there is no baby in it, every month, the "pad" in the "nest" will fall off and become a small piece of debris and some blood will be discharged from the body.

Special advice: a smaller child will be worried when his mother is bleeding, so it's very important to tell him that you are healthy and don't hurt. But as your child grows up, it's best to close the bathroom door, which is good for you and your child. No6: what is sex, mom?

Children under 4 years old: tell him that sex is a very close behavior of two adults, such as Mom and Dad, when they love each other very much.

Children aged 4-6: children may have read some picture books of sex education, so you can tell them that adults will take off their clothes and kiss each other when they have sex. Then the man puts his penis in the woman's vagina. Both of them will feel very good. Sometimes, this will produce a baby. When adults have sex, it's best to have only two people, completely undisturbed, so that they can enjoy the good feeling.

Special advice: from the perspective of prevention of sexual abuse, you need to know where children hear the word. You need to frequently search for security risks in your child's growing environment.

No7: why do adults kiss?

Children under 5: people who love each other and are willing to be close to each other are willing to feel each other's lips.

Children over 5: lips are very sensitive, so kissing is more exciting than kissing the cheek. However, people don't want to keep such a close relationship with many people. For ordinary friends, at most, they just kiss their cheeks, or they won't kiss them at all.

Special advice: tell your child that he can decide who to kiss and who to allow to kiss him. Moreover, even grandparents, uncles and aunts can only kiss the baby when he wants.

No8: why is my chicken sometimes bigger?

Children under the age of 4: tell the child that it may be because he has urinated, or because he just pressed it.

4-6-year-old: at this time, we should let the child know the scientific name of the chicken is "penis", and tell him that when you think of something beautiful, or you touch it, it will get bigger and harder, because there is more blood flowing there. After a while, it will get smaller and softer.

Special advice: when your child always puts his hands between his legs and touches his genitals, you should tell him not to do this in front of others. You can say, "it's a very private move. Many adults and children like it, but they don't want to be seen. And other people don't want to see it. "

No9: will my buttocks grow hair, too?

Children under 3: Yes, it's like a father with a beard and a mother.

Children aged 3-6: Yes, but in a few years. When a little boy becomes a man, or a little girl becomes a woman, she grows some body hair. Young men will grow hair on the chin, under the armpit, around the penis and legs, and some on the chest. A woman's body hair grows under her armpit and in her pubic region.

Special advice: if you like, you can continue to explain to the child that some parts of the body hair will be shaved regularly, so it will feel just right, such as the beard on the chin and the body hair under the armpit.

No10: what are the two puppies doing?

Children under 3 years old: it's good to tell them "they are playing" calmly.

Children aged 3-5: they may ask more complicated questions. No matter what details you ask, you can say: "they think it's more fun, just like you like playing the game of catching bad people with Tintin."

Children over 5 years old: you can tell them that animals are mating in order to have babies according to their specific problems and with some picture books.

Special advice: when answering similar questions of children, your attitude should be as natural as other questions raised by children. Don't take them away, avoid the crowd and tell them later.

The baby is very curious about the world. For the new baby, the world is really colorful, many things are novel. We need to be patient with the baby's problems, deal with the baby's problems well, and do not deliberately avoid the problems of the baby.