A strong wife in Hangzhou drives her mother-in-law out of the house and forces her husband to divorce! But two months later, the plot reversed... "Let your mother take the baby without thinking about it, so as not to take my son with the same wimp as his father in the future!" I can't get through it, divorce! " Wife BEIBI pointed to her husband Xiaoming's nose. This is a scene that happened in the divorce registry more than two months ago. At that time, people persuaded the marriage not to be divorced.
However, two months later, the husband and wife came back to the marriage registry again. At this time, wife Bebe was crying for no divorce, while husband Xiaoming was determined. This is really too dramatic. It can only show that this female friend has done it. Anyway, it's too late to say anything. Why don't you do better to your mother-in-law? Why don't you get along well with your mother-in-law? Why don't you let your husband be embarrassed? Let's see the nine key points of getting along with your daughter-in-law and mother-in-law. Although the daughter-in-law is half a daughter when she doesn't intervene in the family affairs, the mother-in-law can't interrupt her daughter-in-law. No matter what kind of entanglement there is, it can't turn to outsiders, especially about the distribution of family property and other major issues. When the husband has brothers and sisters, the daughter-in-law must not express her opinions. When you need to stand for your own interests, you should persuade your husband to come forward. No matter how reasonable you may be, you will always fall behind what is said. A lot of daughter-in-law oneself regard oneself as an outsider, cross husband to express an opinion, cause oneself to be hated by mother-in-law family. It is the minimum standard to maintain the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. What should be called on the mouth should be called, how often to take the children back to the mother-in-law's house, when to give gifts, the mother-in-law does not like to let her husband choose. As a daughter-in-law, we should not say hello, we should do all the manners, even if we don't know how to be polite, it's no wonder that we fall into the trap. I respect my mother-in-law in principle, but I don't want to listen to her unconditionally. As for insulting yourself and your mother's family, only two people are needed to decide how to use the family money, how to give birth to boys and girls, when to give birth to children, and how to educate children. When you feel unhappy for the first time, you should clearly tell her that we will discuss it, so don't worry about it. My mother-in-law said such words again, not to contradict or quarrel, but to find an excuse to avoid, let her slowly understand that you hate her to say such words, and your principle will never compromise for her. When there is an inevitable contradiction with mother-in-law in the education of children, we should focus on the future of children. Because the children's future is in the hands of parents [microblog], but the old people have no future, they will never compromise on the basis of avoiding contradictions as much as possible. The biggest reason why you don't rely on your mother-in-law to hold your daughter-in-law is that you have provided financial assistance or contributions. If you live in her house, you will be angry with her for a lifetime. If you want to share her property, you have to swallow your anger. In addition to the economy, there is also the mother-in-law who shows her grandchildren. If you need her to look after your children, she will naturally have to educate them in her own way. So women need to be independent, independent to maintain their personal dignity. There is a Japanese daughter-in-law who lives with her mother-in-law. She has always been patient or contradictory. So she made up her mind to be independent. She saved her husband's salary and found a job. After 15 years of marriage, she finally bought a new house for three generations with the money saved by two people. Now the kitchen and toilet are separated from mother-in-law. They enjoy their own lives, and there are few conflicts. Don't treat my mother-in-law as a mother. Some women are alert, suspicious and full of thorns. When they feel dangerous, they use them to attack and slander others. Needless to say, this kind of person did not get enough love and correct education when he was young. She is an unfortunate woman. Although everyone says that they treat their mother-in-law like a mother, if you treat her well, she will treat you well. But if the woman who has been stabbed unfortunately becomes your mother-in-law, sympathize with her and treat her kindly, but she is not less malicious to you. So don't force yourself to treat her like a mother. Such a woman is not a mother, but your husband's mother. It's a symbol. She lives close to her. Her mind is not clear about her neighbors. The day she deals with her is just a nightmare. She will wake up one day. If you cut her off from yourself in your heart and don't take her seriously, then her hurt to your words and actions will not be so deep. Do not show intimacy and love even if you and your husband are like glue and honey, like to hold hands on your waist, and never show it in front of your mother-in-law. This will arouse her fierce jealousy and automatically put you in the position of the enemy. If you want to live in peace with her, don't provoke her. No matter how much your husband cares about you and how generous he is, don't show a little in front of her. Don't show rich in front of her mother-in-law to maintain a simple style, with the exception of some rich mother-in-law. No matter whether it's the famous brand bag bought with her husband's salary or her own salary, try not to let her see it, let her know that you are rich. Buy with her husband's salary and she will say that you spend money recklessly and are not filial. Buy with your own salary and she will say that you don't know how to save and are too wasteful. In a word, you won't hear any good words. If you don't answer back, your mother-in-law likes to be picky. Some of them are obviously unreasonable. Even if the mother-in-law has an affair for no reason, the smart daughter-in-law will not talk back to her mother-in-law, but find other ways to solve it. Say your dish is salty and light, and then divide it into two parts, one of which is more salt. If you don't think it's good, ask her to burn herself. Let's learn modestly. Learning to learn also can't burn the taste of my mother-in-law, just ask her to do it, holding a handful of her to make her proud is better than listening to her face nagging you. A friend's mother-in-law is very picky about the cooking, always disrelish her cooking is not delicious. She told her husband the reason. Her husband supported her to sign up for the outside cooking class and studied cooking for three years. Now, she has been cooking far more than her mother-in-law, and she can't say anything more. The fastidious mother-in-law is the benefactor of her craft. She still thanks her mother-in-law in her heart. If you don't have any dissatisfaction with the marriage and the people and things of your mother-in-law's family, just talk with your mother and friends. Never talk to your mother-in-law. Even if your mother-in-law feels the same way about her husband, don't complain about her husband in front of her. Because your husband is her son, and no matter how bad it is, she has educated it. Criticizing your husband is the same as criticizing her.
It's really a knowledge to get along with my mother-in-law. In fact, my mother-in-law is not difficult to get along with. As long as you treat her sincerely, she will treat you sincerely. A smart daughter-in-law must learn to get along with her mother-in-law, so that she can not make her husband difficult and have a happy marriage.