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What's the reason why first love fails when the success rate of first love is only 1%

First love, a lot of people will always remember in their heart, because many people's first love can not go to the end. Wang Ting, associate professor of Nanjing University of traditional Chinese medicine, recently conducted a small survey on "first love" among senior students of the University. The result is that 170 of the 240 senior students interviewed have experienced first love. So far, only two of them have maintained love relationship, and the overall success rate of first love is only about 1%. Why is the success rate of first love so low? Many young people don't know for themselves. When they are in love, they are very blind. Everything is very simple. But if marriage is really involved, first love usually ends in failure. So why can't first love succeed?

There is no solid practical basis and necessary objective conditions. Love and marriage are not the combination of Dutch and Dutch, but the economic, political and many other factors. The first love is generally young, the outlook on life has not been fully established, the political is not mature, the economic is not completely independent, which may lead to the failure of love.

The physical development is not consistent with the psychological maturity. The psychological maturity is later and slower than the physical maturity. When a young man is basically mature and has the envy and pursuit of the opposite sex, the maturity can not keep up, which is easy to make the first marriage and dating with sexual primitive desire to a large extent, and become an emotional impulse

Because of the low degree of maturity, emotion and reason can not coordinate, first love is often dominated by emotion, reason plays a secondary role, or even does not play a role. Men in first love are easily attracted by the physical signs of Tai. They often think of each other's body shape, appearance, demeanor, and hot thoughts from each other. What they lack is rational judgment and mature thinking. As a result, the first love has a greater degree of blindness. The first love is strong, fragile and changeable.

Lack of necessary knowledge and experience. The first love is generally new to the society, not to explore the world: often the thinking method is simple, naive, easy to think everything is very good, the complexity of things rent may encounter between problems and difficulties, and the first love first time mud a love Kingdom, love is also lack of experience.

According to the above summary of the reasons for the failure of the first love, I believe that many people know that the first love is unforgettable, the first love is simple, and having a good first love also leaves an unforgettable memory for themselves, no matter what, the person who once accompanied you through a good period of time.