The best age difference between husband and wife, the oldest 5 years old, the happiest marriage
According to a survey by European scientists, age is a key factor in the stability of marriage. According to a follow-up survey of 1534 couples conducted by the University of bath in the UK, the best way to maintain a strong marriage is that both men and women are highly educated and have no divorce history, while the men are more than five years older than the women.
Wives over five years younger than their husbands are the least likely age group to be in conflict, with a divorce rate of one sixth that of other marriages, the researchers said.
In addition, a study by the University of Vienna found that if a husband is 4-6 years older than his wife, he has the most children; while a husband is 15 years older than his wife, although the number of children is small, the marriage life is the most satisfactory.
Couples of the same age communicate well
Besides "male Big Five", "same age love" marriage is also good!
Love at the same age is not the narrow sense of the same age we understand, but the two sides of the same age, basically belong to the same generation.
The same age of men and women means that men are the same age as women or men are under 3 years older than women. It can be said that in the modern concept, this marriage mode is very ideal.
The basis of the same age love lies in the psychological and physical coordination between the two lovers. This kind of marriage is the most sustainable and has six major benefits.
First, it is easy to establish close relationship. Second, frequent interaction. The third is synchronous growth. Four is consistent demand. Fifth, support from relatives and friends. Sixth, equality and self-confidence.
In a word, the social experience of lovers of the same age is similar, and they are easy to be one-sided when they encounter life problems, while long-term running in will make both sides think in the same way, have a sharp heart, and form a common cognitive model.
Although the same age of men and women has many advantages, it is precisely because of equality that there will be some problems. Couples of the same age are prone to compete for rights because they are too equal. They may often fight for "who has the final say".