No matter in love, or in any relationship, the most taboo is not proper, that is, we often say that we have crossed the boundary intentionally or unintentionally. Some people are very lazy and take love for granted. They feel that they enjoy the constant flow of water and are very stable. They don't jump off and don't change at will. This kind of people like to live and work in peace and contentment, and some people like to have surprises and waves in their feelings, otherwise they don't think it's love.
So everyone has different requirements for their feelings, but objectively speaking, when two people get along with each other, they should have a good sense of propriety. Once some principles are touched and some bottom lines are crossed, their feelings will be broken. In fact, when a woman demands a man to be completely transparent, he will fight instinctively and even get angry. For this reason, women need to understand that men can't touch some things, such as the following three.
First, men's freedom
Extroverted men like to have dinner and drink with three or five friends, introverted men like to play games and quiet reading, eager for their own independent space. Whether they are extroverts or introverts, they all want their wives to give them more freedom and space. But some women are born with a strong desire for control, especially in the emotional aspect. They want to control each other in every detail, and do not allow each other to have independent private space, for fear that the other party will change his mind or use the space to do other things. In fact, such a woman is born with a lack of security. The less security she has, the more she will force the other party to give her a sense of security. However, in the end, security can only be given by herself.
For an extrovert man, women should never face his few friends gathering, frequent phone calls urging. For introverted men, they like reading or watching TV in their spare time. At this time, women should give them some independent space instead of nagging. Two people together, to give each other some space, the so-called distance produces beauty, is to grasp the distance.
Second, men's face
As we all know, men are animals who take good care of face. Sometimes men's dignity is more important than life. As the saying goes, a man can be killed but not humiliated, which is about the heroism and the man's nature of living for dignity. In marriage, it is inevitable that there will not be some small conflicts between husband and wife. Or in some public places, if there are conflicts between husband and wife, women should remember that they should never point at their men and shout or even fight, which will make men lose face. Home is a man's last refuge. When a man is tired or his career is frustrated, he will think of his family, especially his wife, for the first time. At this time, the man is eager for his wife's understanding and comfort, rather than his wife's irony and sarcasm.
Men love face, but not the kind of vanity face, because he is the spokesman of a family, so go out, as a wife to help as much as possible to keep this face, smart women will let men give up, stupid women will continue to ask. As long as you give men face, men will try to give you material and love.
At this time, women may throw a question to men: do you want to help me or your mother? In fact, this kind of problem is nothing more than forcing men into a corner. After all, his wife accompanies him for the rest of his life, while his mother takes pains to raise him. Therefore, as a smart woman, on the one hand, she should respect her mother-in-law as much as possible and not touch the old man; on the other hand, when the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law occurs, she should not aggravate him, but communicate with her husband frankly to let him understand his own difficulties, and then the husband and wife should deal with it together.
Men are not serious, look at these three places to know
A serious man knows how to be proper in his life. They will overcome their own weaknesses, even if they especially like a beautiful woman, they will also restrain themselves from colluding with others; and the unruly men, like runaway wild horses, like their own temperament, can't control their mouth and body. Whether a man is serious or not depends on his three aspects.
His mouth
The men who are not serious always can't control their own mouth. They often say some irrelevant words to women. Especially on wechat, you can chat in darkness every time. Most of the time, they will go to all kinds of groups to be lively. When they see a beautiful woman, they will immediately chat with each other. In the social arena, they are also the most active people, and teasing everyone is their best skill.
His friends
A man who is not decent is a friend who is not decent. They get together to eat and drink. It seems that they have to offer a few rounds of wine each time to be sincere enough to put brotherhood in the supreme position. When we sit together, we almost don't talk about work and positive energy of society. All we say are 'compliments', such as praying for our brothers to develop in the future and don't forget our younger brothers.
03. His time
The man who is not serious is also the one who has the most time. Although they have a lot of time, they never spend it on their wives. Just like a nanny to his wife, he can take care of their meals and housework every day. They can ignore the rest of their family responsibilities and care for women. Sometimes when women argue with them, they will respond with "no sense" and "making trouble out of no reason". It seems that the family just treats them as the king of heaven.
Serious men are people with strong self-control, they also have feelings and desires, but they can control themselves and others; and those who can't control themselves are eventually controlled by others.
What kind of man is the most attractive to women?
Sincerity is the first quality of a man. If you want to be a popular and respected person, please treat each other sincerely. No matter in which era, which kind of society, sincerity is a pass into the girl's heart. When you get along with others, you should be honest. You can be euphemistic about what you have, but don't make up.
Good sunshine. Good quality can add tenderness to a man's charm. Kindness is a good quality, which can make your image shine. Take part in more love activities, help more people in need, and you will gradually find that many girls are approaching you intentionally or unintentionally.
Positive, full of positive energy. As the saying goes, "positive people are like the sun, where it shines, where it shines, negative people are like the moon, the first and the fifteenth days of the new year are different.". No matter in life or in work, everyone will have emotions, but don't let emotions dominate your character, learn to restrain yourself, think more from each other's point of view, think divergently, think more, say more, and do more positive things.
A man who understands and understands. In the modern fast-paced life and work, many of our things may inevitably have errors with our imagination. We don't have the time or even the mood to explain. It's really important to understand and understand at this time. If you can understand her and stand on her side without any doubt, I believe she will become your girlfriend soon.
A man who fully believes in and respects people. Believe is to give her enough space and freedom, respect is not forced. When you fall in love or pursue a girl, remember to be obsessed with her. The happiness you get will not be real happiness. No matter what she does, please respect her. You can not accept, you can find something else to divert your attention, but please don't interfere with her.
A man who is humorous and receptive. Many men attribute the reason why they can't catch up with their favorite girl to their appearance or economic strength, but it's not. Instead of having time to complain about the inborn injustice, it's better to cultivate one's own humor skills, watch more and remember more funny jokes, crosstalk and so on, and sometimes you can deeply move the girl's heart.