Original title: Zhejiang farmer's wife took care of her paralyzed husband for 19 years: if he needs me, I will never leave him
Cai aifang, 64, is an ordinary peasant woman in Fangshan village, Daixi Town, Wuxing District, Huzhou City, Zhejiang Province. Over the past 19 years, she has taken good care of her paralyzed husband and interpreted her love with practical actions.
In 2000, Zhang Guangyan, Cai aifang's husband, suddenly fell ill. He went to many places to seek treatment, but without success, and was paralyzed in bed. In the same year, as a substitute teacher, Cai aifang was also laid off.
'it turned out that he was in charge of everything. The pillar suddenly fell down. I felt that the sky was going to fall down. "Cai aifang recalled that her eldest daughter was just married and needed to borrow money to buy a house. All the difficulties were piled up and made her breathless.
'it's hard for you and me to marry me. I wanted to make you happy, but I hurt you all my life. "Hearing the words from her husband lying on the bed, Cai aifang wiped away her tears and made up her mind," he used to take care of me and the family, and I will come later. '
Looking at the tea mountain and bamboo at home, Cai aifang, who had never done farm work, picked up a hoe and took over her husband's original job with teeth clenched. She had been working for 19 years. Every year when it's time to cut bamboo for sale, other people's families always ask for help to chop and drag it down the mountain. In order to save money, Cai aifang cut and dragged herself alone. The mountain road was rough, and she did not know how many falls she fell on the way.
There were times when people pointed their noses and scolded them because of the boundary stone problem in maozhushan, but Cai aifang never mentioned it in front of her husband. 'he's not in good health. I don't want him to worry about it. I just put up with it. "Cai aifang said.
Talking about her daughter, who has been married but often goes home, Cai aifang has a happy smile on her face. "She always tells me not to be afraid. She says that although my father is ill, she will always take care of us. Anyway, she has to buy the endowment insurance, saying that we can't live without support in the future. '
In 2010, Cai aifang went to Fangshan village not far from home for daily cleaning work. Since then, every corner of the village was clean and she was always on call when she needed help. 'as a woman, I can't do that. "Said Xie Lifeng, a village cadre in Fangshan village.
Because of the atrophy of the cerebellum, Zhang Guangyan couldn't stand, so he had to sit in a wheelchair or lie in bed for a long time, and he couldn't hold a stable bowl when eating. Cai aifang fed him one mouthful at a time. "At the beginning, he could speak, but after a long time, he couldn't hear. Even if there were grievances, I could only rot in my heart. '
Now, Cai aifang has adapted to this kind of life. In the face of all the villagers' friends, she will smile happily. "The village cadres never treat me as a cleaning aunt, but really treat me as a friend and respect me very much. So I want to do my own work well, at the same time, try my best to help others and repay the society. '