Original title: Mom, I love you! The 7-year-old boy died of illness. His family made the decision
Www.sihai.com on June 13, a little angel from Qingdao, Shandong Province flew to heaven;
Wang Rui, a 7-year-old boy, died of a space occupying lesion in his brain. His parents painfully decided to donate organs to let Xiao he continue his life in another way, which also brought hope to the other five families.
A 7-year-old boy died and donated organs and cornea
At about 8 am on June 13, Xiaohe, who was lying in the ICU ward of the intensive care unit of the Affiliated Hospital of Qingdao University, stopped breathing.
'he's life is short. We hope his life has width and he doesn't come to this world in vain. 'he's mother said that she hopes that when we talk about he in the future, we should not feel sorry for the short life of the child, but praise the child for saving several people with his short life.
 and's mother said that for the special condition of children's brain stem lesions, they have exhausted all kinds of ways and methods, but the reality is powerless. In the past six months, she was most gratified that the child did not suffer. The couple spent all their time and energy with the child and fulfilled the child's wishes. He spent the last time happily.
When he was pushed into the operating room, all the medical staff bowed to him three times to pray for him. Finally, after evaluation, he's liver, two kidneys and a pair of corneas met the donation criteria, and has been allocated through the Chinese human organ allocation and sharing computer system to find the right donor. Zhang Yanyan, the organ donation coordinator of the Affiliated Hospital of Qingda, said that he he didn't go far away, and his donated organs still live around us.
The last farewell is too long to leave
'the furthest distance in the world is not that I can't say I love you, but that I miss you deeply, but only deeply. "Tagore's poem is also the scene in the ICU ward of the intensive care department of the Affiliated Hospital of Qingda on June 12.
That morning, family members were allowed to visit the patient who had fallen into a deep coma. His mother kept wiping his face and reciting some words that only their mother and son could hear. From time to time, she lowered her head to kiss his face. When she raised her head, there were crystal tears dripping.
Grandma also whispered and grandson asked some words, dad and grandfather stood aside quietly wipe away tears. The last time the family reunited, he was asleep and couldn't open his eyes.
Maybe I have a hunch that this is the last time we get together. My family has been reluctant to leave for a long time. My mother carefully wipes the corners of his eyes and mouth, and gently rubs his son's face & hellip; & hellip; 'it's not that my mother doesn't give you treatment, it's that we are really powerless. The uncles and aunts in the hospital have tried their best, but they still can't keep you back to heaven. '
"The child's condition has entered a state of severe coma. Brain edema leads to increased intracranial pressure, which affects the breathing and heart function. At present, breathing can only be maintained by ventilator. After expert consultation, as the disease continues to develop, the heart may stop beating at any time, because his condition is irreversible, and it has been judged as brain death in medicine. "Xu Chuanshen, deputy chief physician of the Affiliated Hospital of Qingda, said that despite this, everyone wanted to keep the little angel for some time. In case of emergency, the hospital would first take rescue measures to maintain his vital signs until his heart stopped beating.
He is a perfect little angel
On September 17, 2011, he came to this world, bringing endless joy to the Wang family. 'he has been very sensible since he was a child. He doesn't cry and doesn't make noise. If he has a need, he will send a signal to let us understand his needs. "He's grandmother said that she was envied by her neighbors for having such a good grandson.
As he grows up, the sensible side is even more popular. 'everything is easy to discuss. I'm smart. I can teach new things twice, especially English. I can talk with my mother skillfully in kindergarten. 'said his father.
He is handsome, in good shape, and likes to dance. He has been in Latin dance class for less than a year. He has participated in three competitions and won gold, silver and bronze prizes. The teachers praised him for his promising future, quick learning and acceptance ability, and great progress in action standards. He may become a dancer in the future.
'he he is still a little warm man, who cares about others very much. My back hurts. He will massage me with his little hand. In the past two years, I gave birth to a younger brother. I have more energy to take care of my younger brother. He is not angry. He often cares about whether I am tired or not. He takes the initiative to take care of my younger brother for me. "And his mother said, now think about it, and he is a perfect little angel.
I think of organ donation in despair
In January this year, he's eyes had some problems, and his family took him to the hospital for examination. Originally thought it was myopia, but the diagnosis was like a bolt from the blue. He's father said that on January 12 this year, he confirmed a glioma growing in the brain stem, and the lesion in this part could not be treated surgically.
"When we are with our children every day, if we can hold them for a little longer, we can hold them for a little longer. Our husband and wife nearly collapse because of the children's difficulties in walking, standing, sitting, and talking. 'he's mother said that if an organ can be replaced to make the child better, everyone in the family is willing to give their lives for he's health.
In the process of inquiring about all kinds of treatment methods, his parents also thought that 'many families of patients with liver, kidney and other organ failure have the same despair as us, but they have hope to wait for a chance of rebirth. He and his mother said that there is no hope of rebirth in their family. It's better to help everyone. After discussing with her family, the whole family agreed to donate. If it is irreparable, let the child do a good deed for the last time and leave his perfect shadow in the world.
Hehe's mother said that in despair, they made the last decision for hehe. And his parents also became organ donation volunteers. On June 11, his father and mother filled in the organ donation application registration form together, acting as executors of each other and becoming organ donation volunteers.
"Our sons have all decided to donate, and our husband and wife should keep up, because after in-depth understanding, we know that organ donation is for the benefit of mankind. 'he's father said that if one day suitable conditions are available for organ donation, their husband and wife will save other people's lives and live in the world in another way, just like their son.
'I hope those organ recipients can grow up healthily for my children and live a long life. This is not a waste of their children's time. 'said his mother.