Tomorrow is the Chinese Valentine's day. Compared with the romantic feelings of Chinese young people, in fact, the best interpretation of love is to go hand in hand for a whole life. It is also very warm to have a companion for life when you are gray haired!
Red beans are born in southern China. How many branches are there in spring? I hope you can pick them more. This is the most Acacia. August 2 (tomorrow) is the Chinese Valentine's day. In Hongdou village, zhuanlong Town, Jintang County, which means love, Tang Xianwu and his wife, the oldest in the village, use their 74 years of marriage together to deduce a love story of "plain is true".
There is a time called everlasting
Only one group photo in my life
The farthest place I've been is Gaoban town where my sister married. '
Tang's house, in a hillside of Hongdou village, through a cornfield, the reporter saw Tang Xianwu and his wife waiting in the hall. Tang Xianwu, 94, was wearing a royal blue T-shirt and hunched on a wooden chair. His 93 year old wife, Tang Wang, was close to him. Years have carved deep wrinkles on the couple's faces. Hearing the reporter's greetings, grandma smiles and reveals her only two teeth.
In 1940, introduced by relatives, 20-year-old Tang Xianwu and 19-year-old Tang Wang met, and after three months of love, they entered the marriage palace. In 74 years, they had three daughters and a son (two of whom had already died). In the eyes of his son Tang Liangsi, his parents are responsible and honest, and they have spent their whole life in poverty and hard work. "The farthest place I have ever been is Gaoban Town, where my sister married. "On the wall of the room, there is a picture of the old couple. That was in 1984, when the couple applied for the first generation of ID cards, they took photos in the photo gallery by the way. 'it's hard to avoid sadness. My parents only have this picture in their life. '
There is a kind of happiness called you accompany
In order to save their children, parents drink salt water to survive
"Dad talks about history, mom weaves clothes, and sometimes looks up and smiles."
Tang Xianwu studied in a private school for several years, and he was able to write good characters. In Tang Liangsi's memory, father's most relaxed time was after his parents came back from work. Tang Xianwu likes history and studies every dynasty. His favorite books are Romance of the Three Kingdoms and outlaws of the marsh. He told us about history every night, from the Yuan Dynasty to the Qing Dynasty, and asked to repeat it when excited. "Tang Liangsi said that his mother had never read a book, and even couldn't write her own name." but it didn't affect their feelings. When Dad talked about history, his mother would weave clothes and sometimes look up and smile. ". The most difficult year in Tang's memory is 1959. 'There's nothing to eat at all. I can't even open the pot at home. We were all crying with hunger. In a hurry, our parents had to go to the mountain to dig wild vegetables and come back and cook them with white water. If you're lucky, you can dig out radish leaves and kraft. "Tang Liangsi told reporters that at this time, his parents said that he was not hungry and forced us to eat first. Many times, Tang Liangsi saw his parents hiding in the kitchen, picking up well water with salt and gulping it down.
There is a tacit understanding called tacit understanding
I smoke for you and you comb my hair
Because I can't see clearly, I'm afraid of pain. My old companion is always slow and leisurely.
Day after day, time flies away. "Dad has developed cataracts in recent years, his eyesight has decreased significantly, and his mouth is also & lsquo; dumb.". "Tang Liangsi said that despite this, his mother still liked to talk to his father. Granny Tang likes to nag about the past. The husband who can't speak will listen with his eyes closed. Sometimes, if she doesn't get a response, she will play a child's temper in front of her husband. 'after talking for a long time, did you hear me? What a stupid old man. '
Tang Xianwu liked to smoke tobacco. Since his eyesight decreased, he thought that he had to rely on his old friends for addiction. Every day, Tang Wang's family would turn out the cut tobacco of tobacco leaf tobacco and wrap two pieces for her husband. During the interview, the reporter saw that Tang Xianwu patted his wife with his hand. At this time, grandma Tang slowly stood up and walked into the bedroom to find a tobacco leaf. 'he wants to smoke. 'back in the wooden chair, she put the cigarette into her husband's mouth and took a lighter out of her trouser pocket. Watching Tang Xianwu puffing and puffing, grandma Tang began to laugh. 'don't think my mother is the only one who is good to my father. In fact, their love is mutual. "Tang Liang pointed to his mother's neat white hair." it was all combed by my father. ". Three years ago, Tang Wang's hand joint began to ache, unable to take care of his long hair. Tang Xianwu listened to his wife's complaints in his ears and kept them in mind. The next morning, he took out a blue plastic comb and began to comb his wife's hair. Because he could not see clearly, Tang Xianwu took care of it very seriously. The old companion is afraid of pain, and the speed is always slow and leisurely. Compared with today's fast-paced love, this kind of long-term persistence makes the younger generation worth cherishing and learning. In fact, more tolerance and persistence in love is the best protection!