In the eyes of modern people, this word may become very luxurious, but for our parents, decades of care for married couples may be the most beautiful interpretation!
Relatives and friends advised him to find another one
When it comes to Su Jinghai in Xinyue community, Liuying street, Kuancheng District, the residents nearby will give a thumbs up, and everyone agrees that Su Jinghai is a good man.
In 1973, Su Jinghai and Zhang Shuqin got to know each other. After more than a year of contact, they became husband and wife. However, on the second day of marriage, his wife had a mental attack. Relatives and friends advised him to send her back to his mother's home and find another one while he was young, but he firmly disagreed. Su Jinghai said, "since we have become husband and wife, I have the obligation and responsibility to take care of her no matter how she is. '
More than a year later, their child was born, and his wife's mental illness did not improve, but became more and more serious. His wife sometimes cried and quarreled, and the children she gave birth to couldn't take care of. She ignored Su Jinghai even more. Sometimes she even had to take care of her daily life.
A good neighbor helps to look after the children
At this time, it was really hard for Su Jinghai to cure Zhang Shuqin's illness, feed the baby in his infancy, and go out to earn money to support his family. Fortunately, he had a kind neighbor to take care of the children. When he was short of firewood and rice, his neighbors also helped him, which made Su Jinghai feel incomparably warm.
In the following days, his wife Zhang Shuqin's condition was very unstable. No one knew her when she was ill. She always scolded and laughed for no reason, and often damaged the things in the family.
'I've never regretted it for so many years.'
Zhang Shuqin broke her glass again in the cold weather of 1980. 'I was angry and heartbroken to see my wife's frostbitten hands and feet. "Su Jinghai said that at that time, someone had tried to persuade him to give up, but he still insisted that" marriage is the fate of thousands of years of cultivation ", and he never gave up the idea of taking care of his wife.
Now, Su Jinghai is nearly 70 years old. He has taken care of his wife for 40 years as usual. His touching deeds make many people respect him. From the young man who just got married to the old man, now, Su Jinghai's face is full of wrinkles, but his smile is still so warm. Now he is very satisfied, can accompany his wife every day, live a peaceful and happy life. 'for so many years, I have never regretted it. I have no regrets to take care of my old companion. "Therefore, those seemingly insipid but extremely faithful love is the most we should stick to and pass on. Praise for such a beautiful persistence!