Every family has its own story, and every family has its troubles. Our life can't be smooth sailing. Our story can't be happy forever. We may bear the pain of life. We may also find happiness in the pain. In fact, the state of life is related to our mentality. We are full of confidence in life and everything The future is still beautiful.
20 years ago, 19-year-old Yunnan girl Li Guimei married to Zhejiang. But the hope of a good day was broken by the fact that the family members were seriously ill. In 1997, her husband suffered from mental illness, and her mother-in-law suffered from uterine cancer in 2003. In 2008, her father-in-law suffered from stomach cancer and stroke.
In 1994, Li Guimei met her husband Hong Zongda, who was 13 years younger than her age, and married to pengba village, Shepan Township, Sanmen County, Taizhou City, Zhejiang Province. At that time, the idea was very simple. Zhejiang was more developed than Yunnan, hoping to marry a good family. 'said Li Guimei.
But her husband's old stone house let her down. The villagers advised her to return to Yunnan, but the love of her husband and mother-in-law made her decide to stay and be a good wife and daughter-in-law. The next year, WAMI's family ushered in the birth of their son.
However, one night in 1997, her husband Hong Zongda hit and scolded Li Guimei crazily. He also hit his head against the wall from time to time. When he regained consciousness the next day, he did not remember. Li Guimei accompanied her husband to the hospital for examination and was found to have mental illness.
After the illness, her husband's temper became extremely irritable, and he often punched her. Good people advised her to remarry while she was young, but she always responded with a smile.
After her husband lost the ability to work, the whole family could only rely on Li Guimei to make a living. During the busy farming season, Li Guimei planted cotton and worked as a small laborer in his spare time. However, her income was not high, but she bought nearly 2000 yuan of imported medicine for her husband every month.
'Thanks to Guimei for so many years, this family would have collapsed. 'when he didn't get sick, Hong Zongda said with guilt. Li Guimei's careful care makes her husband's condition well controlled.
In 2003, her mother-in-law was found to have uterine cancer; in 2008, her father-in-law suffered from stomach cancer and stroke;
Li Guimei takes all the heavy burden. Washing, feeding, turning over, changing sheets & hellip; & hellip; she was not tired and dirty, but served her father-in-law like a daughter. Her father-in-law has to go to the toilet every night for an hour or two. She often suffers from incontinence. For four or five years in a row, Li Guimei has not slept soundly. Sometimes she has to change and wash the sheets and quilts several times a day.
Li Guimei has to worry about the health of her mother-in-law and her husband, as well as the cost of family treatment and children's schooling. Over the past few years, my family has owed more than 60000 yuan in debt, and my son has also dropped out of school. In order to take care of my father-in-law, I have not even seen my father-in-law for the last time. Speaking of the past, Li Guimei burst into tears.
The two old men finally died. In order to pay off the debt as soon as possible, Li Guimei plans to plant cotton on her 10 mu of land at home. She said that if the harvest is good, a mu of land can have a profit of nearly 1000 yuan. Speaking of the future, she is still full of confidence.
Li Guimei is the most beautiful daughter-in-law and the most beautiful woman. She has great hope for life. She will not give up because of temporary difficulties and pressure. She loves her family. Similarly, her family also gives her the courage to move forward. Maybe we will think that Li Guimei is stupid, but please remember that stupid people have silly fortune. Who can be sure that Li Guimei is unhappy?