Physical disability is not terrible, what is terrible is your heart, your will is also disabled, a person with a strong will, no matter how big the difficulties can not stop him from moving forward, the life of people with tenacious will is full of sunshine, they are the sun themselves.
Lu Jianxin used to be a healthy man. On November 22, 1985, 25-year-old Lu Jianxin suffered the biggest tragedy in his life and was severely burned at work. At that time, the doctor said that leg protection was not life-saving, and mother agreed with the doctor to carry out the operation with tears in her eyes. Losing his legs, Lu Jianxin stubbornly stood up again.
After a period of treatment and psychological rehabilitation, Lu Jianxin stubbornly stood up from his grief and did not abandon himself. Lu Jianxin said, "I've been like this, how can I be miserable? If many people are injured like me, they may die, but I'm still alive. '
Lu Jianxin said that after he was injured, he was helped by many kind-hearted people. There is no reason why he should not live well, and he should live happily.
Setting up a family, Lu Jianxin hopes for his three sons
In 1990, it was introduced that Lu Jianxin married Wang Wanhong, who was 11 years younger than him. When asked why Wang Wanhong fell in love with Lu Jianxin, she was a little embarrassed. She only said a short sentence: 'I think he has a good heart. 'a simple woman.
In 1992, their first son was born, named Lu Yongkuan. According to relevant policies, Lu Jianxin can have a second child. Unexpectedly, Lu Jianxin ushered in twin sons in 2003, named Lu Yongjian and Lu Yongkang respectively.
Lu Jianxin said that after so many years of marriage with his wife, the two have never bought new clothes. They only buy clothes for their sons occasionally. Clothes for a family of five are mainly provided by neighbors, relatives and friends. Even so, Lu Jianxin said that he never felt the burden on him was too heavy. "Life always needs to continue, and the road still needs to go step by step.".
'if life deceives you, don't be sad or angry. In the sad days, we should be calm and put our hope in the future. From Pushkin's poems, it seems that Lu Jianxin's mood is read out; from the names of his three sons, it is not difficult to read the hope in his heart.
After receiving the good news, Lu Jianxin worried about his son's college tuition
After August 3, 2011, Lu Jianxin said that his mood began to be mixed with sadness and joy. He felt that the burden on his shoulders was heavy and he couldn't carry it. On the same day, Lu Yongkuan, the eldest son, received the admission notice from Hunan University of science and Technology (No.2), and the tuition and miscellaneous expenses required as much as 10000 yuan.
They have been repairing bicycles for more than 600 yuan in the neighborhood. They have been repairing bicycles for over 17 years. Wang Wanhong, his wife, works as a cleaner in a neighborhood, earning 600 yuan a month. The income of the two people adds up to more than 1200 yuan a month. Even with some relief from the government, they are barely caring for the daily expenses of a family of five.
Because he is popular at ordinary times, many people like to go to the garage and chat with Lu Jianxin. However, recently, when talking and laughing with his neighbors, he is always absent-minded and his face is often full of clouds.
When his son was admitted to university, Lu Jianxin had to pay more than 10000 yuan for his son's tuition. He and his wife, Wang Wanhong, were in real trouble. He was always optimistic and his heart became heavy.
Inheriting the spirit, Lu Jianxin church's sons live strong and optimistic
Lu Yongkuan, 19 years old, has a little handsome on his young face. He inherits his father's optimism and strength. Before school, Lu Yongkuan would push his father to the street to repair his car; after school, he would help his father clean up the repair booth and push his father home; this is what Lu Yongkuan often does in primary school, junior high school and high school. Now that the two brothers are nine years old, it's their turn to do the work.
Lu Yongkuan said that when he was a child, he also felt inferior because of such a father. His father taught him to face bravely in life. 'although I can't compare with the children of rich families in life, I am different from other children's children. I feel that I am more sensible, stronger, more thrifty, and understand the meaning of life better than them. My father told me that one can't live forever with a sad face. I want to compare the future with those children! "Lu Yongkuan's face was full of confidence when he said these words.
Confident father and confident son, the current difficulties are only temporary. I believe that your self-confidence and tenacity can overcome all the hardships of life, and you can achieve the life you want by your own efforts and be the master of your own life.