The man took care of his late colleague's mother for 25 years without complaint: you can eat what I

Decades of caring for other mothers, this kind of insistence will only be understood by those who feel the same way. Although Laowu old and human old are the excellent national culture passed down for thousands of years, they seldom practice it with their own practical actions!

in Puyang City, Henan Province, Yang Mingfeng, a man in his 50s, took care of his late colleague's helpless old mother, Shu Ma, for 25 years, just like his biological mother. He also changed from a 27 year old boy with blue hair to a gray hair today. He told his 88 year old 'Shu Ma' that you can rest assured that if you have what I eat, you have what you eat. Over the years, Yang Mingfeng's careful care has made "Shu Ma" forget the loss of her son.

On January 21, in the narrow living room of the "Shu Ma" family, the reporter saw the two "mother and son" who are close but have no blood relationship. As usual, Yang Mingfeng starts to nag at home with his mother Shu's hand. The wrinkled 'Shu Ma' is hale and hearty though she is old and stoops to the knees. The big screen ultra-thin color TV that the old lady is watching is bought by Yang Mingfeng at his own expense. This TV is better than his own. In the corner of the living room, there are pictures of the Yang Mingfeng's family.

Shuma's son and I are colleagues. After his unexpected death, from 1988 to now, we treat Shuma as our own mother and come to see her every day. Everything in our family, except that I am my wife, is worrying. We are a very common family. As long as the old lady is in good health, our family are very happy. 'said Yang Mingfeng.

'Shu Ma' and Yang Mingfeng, a native of Shandong Province, met in the 1980s. According to Yang Mingfeng's memory, they lived in the same plank house area of Zhongyuan oil field with their son. Although they were not in the same operation team, they knew each other and gradually became familiar with each other. At the age of 27, Yang Mingfeng heard the news of the accidental death of the son of "Shu Ma", which made "Shu Ma", who had experienced the loss of his mother as a child and his husband as a young man, suffer a heavy blow again.

'the old lady has never seen such a scene since she came from the countryside. At that time, we had moved to the family upstairs and lived in the front and back floors with the old lady. She cried at home every day. I felt very sad when I saw this scene. After her daughter-in-law transferred her job, she was left with her granddaughter. Then the daughter-in-law remarried, leaving the old man to live alone. Her daughter, who lives far away in Shandong, is in a bad situation. Yang Mingfeng said that 25 years ago, I didn't think so much about it, but I naturally took care of "Shu Ma" who was also far away from my hometown.

According to Yang Mingfeng, from then on, his son and wife often went to the old man's house to clean, chat and send necessities.. Feelings are not built up deliberately. As the remains of the staff and workers, the old lady has no income at all. Yang Mingfeng and the factory labor union have won the living expenses and subsistence allowances for the old lady. Over the years, Yang Mingfeng has been willing to pay for what the old lady needs.

At first, Yang Mingfeng paid his own money to 'Shu Ma' to spend time, and 'Shu Ma' said nothing. Yang Mingfeng thought of a way to entrust 'Shu Ma' to help him buy vegetables, so as to give her some pocket money. Later, he matched 'Shu Ma' with the key of her house, and received 'Shu Ma' to eat at home every day. He also equipped 'Shu Ma' with water heaters, televisions, refrigerators, washing machines and fixed phones; Every weekend, Yang Mingfeng's wife will take a bath with Shu Ma; the faucet and light bulb in Shu Ma's house are broken, and Yang Mingfeng will repair them within a day; the whole family will celebrate Shu Ma's birthday every year.. Yang Mingfeng's family paid little by little, gradually eliminating the formality of "Shu Ma" regarding Yang Mingfeng as a benefactor.

Shu Ma, who has been listening quietly, told reporters: 'for so many years, he came almost every day. Sometimes he didn't have time to come. He would call me. If I didn't get a call, I would call him. Sometimes he would say that I was busy in the meeting. However, as soon as I heard his voice, I was happy and relieved. I didn't expect that after losing my son, I would have today's life. 'Yang Mingfeng looks at the old man:' as long as I have a stuttering, there is no shortage of Shu Ma '.

While talking, 'mother Shu' lifted a corner of her coat to reveal the brand-new cotton padded clothes inside; 'this is what Yang Kang (Yang Mingfeng's son) bought for me. I'm very happy now. This year, the child is 27 years old, and I'm not married yet. I'm happy to marry her. They take care of me as they do to my son and grandson. '

Yang Mingfeng's Shandong hometown also has an old mother who lives with his brother. The old mother always tells Yang Mingfeng that you can live a good life and take good care of "Shu Ma". Don't worry about her. Every time I go home, my mother always asks Yang Mingfeng to bring something for Shu ma.

Although she is old, she can do some things as she can, such as making simple meals, raising two chickens in the small yard, and she also has a hobby of picking up waste products. Yang Mingfeng said that she used to say that she didn't lack food or clothes, and she was old, so she didn't have to pick them up. However, she was used to frugality and liked to pick up scraps while watching the ball games in the playground. 'she was also for fun, and many volunteers knew & lsquo; Shu Ma & rsquo;, and when she met her, she helped her to send the bottle home. I helped her build a small house in the yard for the bottles she picked up. '