No matter how the times change, there is no denying that in the pursuit of love, men are still the so-called "active attack" role. "The book of songs" says: 'my fair lady, a gentleman likes to be a concubine', which is still applicable up to now. The man saw the "Lady" in his mind, and still couldn't help the instinct of hunting, so he fell down with all his strength!
However, just as war emphasizes strategy and tactics, the success or failure of men's skills in chasing women is crucial. The best can use four or two thousand catties to achieve the maximum effect with the least cost; the middle can work hard and reap the most; the lower can do half the work, even in vain.
In other words, what is the best way for a woman? How can a man move a woman's heart?
Flower attack
Although very old-fashioned, but flowers are still classic and enduring weapons. When Lin Qingxia and Esprit boss Xing Liyuan got married, thousands of pink roses were arranged beside the swimming pool, occupying a large section of the media and arousing the envy of many women.
When Hu Huizhong, a Taiwanese actress, was filming an advertisement the year before last, a mysterious man presented 3600 roses, which made her say in a coquettish way: 'seeing so many roses makes me feel so dizzy that I have the impulse to get married. 'it can be seen that flowers are still a strong needle for women to resist. But there are also many men who complain: 'flowers are sent! Every Valentine's day and birthday, flowers are sent, but the effect is not great!' maybe Xu Zhimo's aesthetic concept of "counting feces is beautiful" can be used at this time: for six months, sending a dozen roses every day is definitely effective; or choosing a specific day, sending a thousand roses at a time. You know, few women are surrounded by flowers and not touched.
There are exceptions, however. There is a friend who works in the advertising industry, only in his girlfriend's birthday, send a long red rose, that is, his girlfriend's heart firmly grasp. Why? It turns out that every year, he sent someone to Tiffany's head office on Fifth Avenue in New York to buy a one carat diamond for him, put it on that long stemmed rose, and give it to his girlfriend together.
sweet talk
In fact, for most women, whether it's flowers, diamonds, or the surprise of pursuing thousands of miles, what they care about is still the intention behind the gift. The almsgiving material offensive of the nouveau riche, no matter how many banknotes are smashed, is believed to be no match for a sweet words that can make women's hearts crisp, meat numb and reverberate.
A strong woman in the shopping malls, still unforgettable once she left a bag of information in the other party's office after the meeting, she called the elegant marketing manager and asked: 'excuse me, do I have something in your office?' the other party said sincerely and softly: 'yes! Your shadow. 'she was very impressed by this sentence because of her numerous readers and wide knowledge.
Surprise
Surprise to create unexpected surprises, of course, is also a woman difficult to parry. A Taiwanese friend told a story: Sally, who works in the tourism industry, and her boyfriend, who is about 20 years older, can love each other for life, which is also a legend. Three years ago, Sally was on a business trip to Paris for a meeting. At that time, she met her boyfriend for only three months, which was still the so-called "tentative period". After leaving her boyfriend at the airport, she went on her own and was very concerned about her boyfriend.
When I got to Paris, I went straight to the hotel. When she opened the door, she saw a big pot of her favorite perfume lily and a love letter from her boyfriend from Taiwan. Just after reading the letter, the phone rings loudly. Guess who it is. Sure enough, it was her boyfriend who called. After two hours of love talk, she said sheepishly: 'it's late, and the overseas call is expensive. Let's talk later. 'my boyfriend says' but I want to see you now', which can't make Sally's heart melt.
Barely hung up. Three minutes later, someone rang the doorbell. As soon as Sally opened the door, she saw her boyfriend outside. She was surprised and pleased. It turned out that he followed her to Paris on another plane that took less time to change planes, and arrived at the hotel earlier than her. There were some doubts in my heart that the age difference between each other was too big, but since then, I have completely disarmed. After all, even men of the same age don't necessarily have the passion to go all the way from Taiwan to Paris.
In fact, it's not difficult for a man to make a woman fall in love with you, as long as he uses the right method at the right time, in an instant, he can wipe out the spark of love. However, it's just the so-called "it's hard to create a career, but it's more difficult to keep success". After falling in love, it's a big challenge and a long way to go to keep the women around you together. After all, a modern woman can do many things. Her talent is no longer limited to love. British poet Byron said: 'love is only a part of men', and it also applies to modern women.