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The last golden

At a dinner party, the mobile phone rang, and the woman sitting on my right answered. She said in a relaxed tone: 'has everything been arranged? Good, good. Remember to remind the travel agency to arrange a wheelchair for me! " After receiving the line, she turned her head and said to me with a smile, 'I'm going to travel to Korea next month.' It's unbelievable that the woman is over 90 years old, and the layers of skin and flesh droop down from her neck. However, her eyes are cloudless and clear. She ridiculed herself that there was a 'travel fungus' in her bones. As long as she didn't go far for a period of time, she was uneasy and unhappy. She said in high spirits, 'even if I have to sit in a wheelchair, I still want to see the world!'

During the dinner, someone jokingly said, 'she is a professional spender!' She smiled and replied, 'money is something you can't take away. What if you don't spend it? The worst thing in life is that people are in heaven, money is in the bank and children are in the court! " After a pause, he said solemnly, 'if I leave a lot of money, they will be spoiled by the white silver.'

The woman sitting on my left is wearing an elegant suit, elegant shawl, and her fluffy hair is dyed playful brown. She smiled and said to me, 'I'm 82 years old!' In front of her, Xu Niang, who has a wonderful charm, looks left and right, front and back. She doesn't look like an 80 year old woman! Asked her how to maintain it, she said humorously, 'happiness, happiness is my beauty agent!' Every time she went to church to raise money for an orphanage or an old people's home, she would take part in it. She said with a smile: 'my child is afraid that I am overworked and always asks me not to participate. However, the more inactive my body is, the more like a fossil. Do good deeds, feel happy and live more and more! To be honest, at my age, I can do whatever I want, and I can't wait at all! "

The woman sitting diagonally opposite me, the youngest, is only over seventy. She lives with her children and grandchildren and gets along well for three generations. When others asked for the secret, she said calmly: 'don't care about anything you shouldn't care about. Let go of the children's generation. They are all middle-aged people in their 30s and 40s. What else do you care? I'm completely relieved about the grandson generation. Whether it's good or bad, his parents are in charge. What are you worried about? "

These three 'Twilight generation' live a life like philosophy, happy and natural. Happiness is because they are well aware of the 'three no's' in their old age:' don't save money, don't wait for dreams, don't care about things'; Natural and unrestrained, because they conform to the 'double release' mentality: 'let go, rest assured'. In this wise attitude of 'freely retracting and releasing', they let the leaves hanging on the treetops shine golden in the autumn of the last season of their life( Eugene)