What should children do if they don't like to talk? What should children do if they are too introverted? How can children become lively and cheerful? Children should grow up noisily and happily, but some of them are very quiet, withdrawn and unsociable. How can you make your children become lively and cheerful?
A mother told her child's story in distress and asked for help. Her daughter is more than 3 years old, timid and non talkative. She seldom takes the initiative to communicate with other children in kindergarten and often plays alone. When guests come to her home, she usually hides behind her parents or in the hut.
In fact, there are two main reasons for children's introversion and timidity: one is due to the type of innate temperament, physical fitness and other reasons. Some children are very sensitive since childhood, it is difficult to adapt to the new environment, and they are not willing to contact strangers. The second is due to the improper way of parents' education. Some children are locked up at home because their parents are unattended at work; some parents do not let their children go out to play because they are afraid that their children will get bad habits in the process of communicating with the outside world; some parents overindulge their children and do everything, resulting in their children not being able to adapt to the new environment and not sharing with their children. For these children, parents might as well try some of the following practices, hoping to give you and your children some help.
1、 Parents should try their best to let their children do what they can and let them do their own things. Parents should give timely encouragement and praise to cultivate children's abilities in all aspects and enhance their self-confidence.
2、 Families should strive to create conditions, take children out of the house, go to some public places or friends with children of the same age, and so on. At the beginning, you can choose one or two cheerful, younger partners to play with, which can enhance the child's self-confidence, and easy to learn some ways to communicate with others. Encourage children to communicate with small partners, and pay attention to observe the children's problems in communication, and guide children how to deal with them.
3、 The family should communicate with the kindergarten teacher, ask the teacher to help the children learn to communicate with their partners in the collective life, and feel the fun.
4、 Parents and teachers should encourage and strengthen their children when they are sociable. Parents' self-confidence and good interpersonal relationship can also help the formation of children's healthy and cheerful personality.
5、 In the whole process, parents should be patient, do not put forward too high requirements, and step by step. For example, when children dare not communicate with guests, dare not speak aloud, dare not do slide games, parents should not force their children. Otherwise, children will be more afraid, more afraid of contact with people.
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