Do you have all the four qualities that girls must have? According to psychologists, women tend to be more emotional than rational, and treat friendship, career and marriage in the same way. This is the fatal weakness that hinders women's development.
Men appreciate optimistic and confident women
Beauty is appearance, but loveliness is in the heart. A woman who is not beautiful can be successfully transformed into an 'artificial beauty' through the ever-changing plastic surgery. The beauty is like a digital baby, while the loveliness is more of a natural temperament. "People are not lovely because they are beautiful, but beautiful because they are lovely.". How to be a lovely woman?
First, learn to be confident
In this society full of competition everywhere, the kind of self pity, weak and helpless women have gradually lost the market.
Men are no longer the masters of women, and women are no longer the vassals of men.
The famous saying that "the ultimate pursuit of men is success, and the ultimate pursuit of women is happiness" has gradually faded. It is always the most important for women to learn to save themselves and improve themselves. It is always passive and unsafe to long for men to give you happiness.
Men appreciate optimistic and confident women. In this world, there are more women who are self reliant, and men have less mental pressure. Moreover, if a man can spend his life with a woman who is not only satisfied with food and clothing, his life will never be old and degenerate.
Second, learn to be noble
A woman's nobility does not mean that she must be born in a rich family or that she is in a prominent position. Here, nobility refers to the nobility of mentality. Men are most disgusted with women who are dissolute, frivolous and obscene. In life, men can be women's flower protectors, but women themselves should provide a kind of confidence for men - this kind of confidence is to let men rest assured, and willing to entrust love for you.
The master in Dumas' the lady of Camellia falls in love with the maid only because of her noble temperament and full femininity. This kind of women often give men confidence and courage in life, because there is a kind of human charm in their lives to purify men's hearts and inspire men's fighting spirit. If modern women want to be free from kitsch, blind obedience and vanity, they must have such noble temperament that men appreciate.
Third, we should be well intentioned and accessible
The kindness here refers to the gentleness of a woman. But it's better to change gentleness into kindness here. Men of course like women's gentleness, because women's gentleness can warm men's hearts. However, tenderness sometimes seems to be a kind of love without principle. To a certain extent, a woman's love for a man who is unworthy of trust and gentleness is the completion of a man's sin.
Love should be moderate and good. Therefore, a good woman should be kind to a man. Women love too much, men do not know how to cherish. In this era, men are no longer used to fixed in a small room, so women should learn to adjust themselves, not to be trapped by love, so that love takes the place of life.
Intelligent and optimistic women can often try to make their hearts more accessible, and make love strong and eternal in a kind of insipid. Sometimes when you let go of emotion, it's just the best way to grasp it.
An intellectual woman, she loves her husband deeply, but she does not forget to cherish herself when she loves her husband. Her husband has been in business all the year round, but their relationship is very harmonious, and there has never been a crack. Some people ask: don't you worry about him looking for flowers and willows outside? This lady answers: my love and his love have always been equal. From the day I accepted his love, I gave him trust. I love him but don't ask him too much. I want him to be successful and perfect, but I never mortgage everything I have on him. What do I worry about? Sometimes when you let go of emotion, it's just the best way to grasp it.
Fourth, be independent in doing things
According to the analysis of psychologists, women tend to be more emotional than rational, and treat friendship, career and marriage in the same way, which is the fatal weakness hindering women's development.
A female migrant worker in Shenzhen, who lost herself in the impetuosity and prosperity of modern city, still keeps her purity as a rural girl. In her dormitory, almost all the other girls have made boyfriends, only she is still 'single'. She told a girlfriend in her hometown that I would not like men in Shenzhen because my roots are not there. I just came out to earn some money, some sent home, some left to buy their own dowry. Of course, I'll find a boyfriend in the future, but I'll go home and find a man of my duty. For example, some of my sisters are not willing to work as blue collar workers on the assembly line, and racking their brains to get rich. Can they be happy forever? I just want to work hard to earn money by myself, and then go home to live a peaceful life & hellip; & hellip; no doubt, this kind of woman who can clearly look at herself on the basis of reality is also a lovely woman in the eyes of men.
It seems that it is not easy for a woman to do all the above. However, as long as you do one of them, in the eyes of men, you can be regarded as a lovely woman.