The necessary condition for people to carry out extensive social activities is good psychological quality, that is to say, the language skills we usually call, have good psychological quality, so that communication can be fully developed.
Are you mentally healthy enough? Please refer to the following mental health standards to judge whether you have good mental health
1. Full of spirit, willing to study and live.
2. Have a harmonious interpersonal relationship.
3. Be able to evaluate others and yourself correctly.
4. Have an optimistic and stable mood.
If there is no good psychological quality, over time will produce a sick psychology. When the mental state is in sub-health, it will form some barriers and barriers, which to some extent hinder people to make friends and adapt to society. Therefore, we should pay attention to self-cultivation in our work and life, and strive to overcome the following kinds of abnormal psychology in interpersonal communication.
Seven morbid psychology in interpersonal communication
1. Psychology of acting
Some people regard making friends as an act of chance. They are always ready to deal with different situations. They love to brag and say beautiful things. When they meet someone, they will say how deep they are in contact with someone. This kind of interpersonal communication is only superficial, so there is no deep friendship.
2、 Cowardice
It is mainly seen in people who are not deeply involved in the world, have shallow experience, are introverted, and are not good at words. Because of their cowardice, they dare not express what they think is right in social intercourse after careful consideration. This kind of psychology can also be observed by others. As a result, they have opinions on themselves and are unwilling to be good friends.
3、 Apathy
Some people are indifferent to all kinds of things as long as they have nothing to do with themselves, or mistakenly think that sharp words, aloof attitude and arrogant stride are "personality", which makes others dare not approach themselves, thus losing some friends.
4、 Rebellious psychology
Some people always like to argue with others to show that they are unconventional. If you say yes, I think it's bad. If you say yes, I say it's wrong, which makes others resent themselves.
5、 Suspicion psychology
Some people tend to look at each other with distrust when they are socializing or doing things for their friends. They are suspicious without any reason. They try to catch up with each other and talk about things. For example, some people ask others what their friends say when they do things for their friends.
6、 Inferiority complex
Some people tend to have a sense of inferiority, even look down on themselves, lack of self-confidence, courage to do things, timidity, echoing, no own ideas. If this kind of psychology is not overcome, it will wear away people's unique personality.
7、 Greedy psychology
Some people think that the purpose of making friends is to 'make use of each other', to meet friends who are useful to themselves and can bring benefits to themselves, and often 'cross the river and break the bridge'. This kind of greed for money and profit, and exposure to other people's bad psychology, will damage their personality.