Willing to be self closed, the connection with the outside world is an Internet cable. They are addicted to animation and the Internet and like collection. They never agree that the 'outside world is wonderful' and that 'the outside world is helpless' is in line with their creed. Experts say that the' otaku 'life ≠ Avant garde fashion
The word 'otaku' comes from Japan. It is said that it has formed a huge crowd and is recognized as an avant-garde lifestyle by contemporary Japanese young people. Recently, the so-called otaku have also appeared in China. Some people say that otaku is the product of modern society. Modern technology provides the possibility for the young generation to live alone, so that they can solve all their life problems without leaving home. However, parents are worried. They are worried that the royal house life will separate their children from society and become a marginal group without social ability.
Otaku: I love traveling in my own space
Netizen 'super tourist' is a resident in an apartment called 'very men and women' in Aijian Binjiang community, Harbin. Don't think he is a 'white-collar' with certain economic strength just because he lives here. In fact, he has no job so far. He is a real 'house man'. " Super tourist's mother is a professor at the school of foreign languages of Heilongjiang University. She doesn't worry about her son.
I heard that the reporter was going to interview the otaku, but the mother of the 'super tourist' was very supportive, 'you advised him that it might work well. When he is so old, he will be abandoned if he stays at home all day?'
'Super tourists' are tall, fashionable, with long hair covering their eyes, which is no different from their peers. His face was just a little gray, which was a feature of his living habits on his appearance. He told reporters that after graduating from college, he couldn't wait to get into his house and become a otaku. " When I was in college, I was very & lsquo; Home & rsquo; Yes, but I can't stay in the dormitory. If I don't have classes for a few days, the guide will come to you. "
'Super tourists' said that for an otaku, the room is all his secrets. Entering a otaku's room is tantamount to entering his inner world. So what's the otaku room like? According to the reporter's observation, there are several main characteristics: first, the house does not need to be too large, because otaku do not contact with the outside world, and they do not need too much space for daily activities. Moreover, they often lack economic sources. Therefore, the smaller the room, the better. Secondly, home digital equipment and electrical appliances in the room are indispensable, especially refrigerators and quick-frozen food. As for the 'super tourist', his main food is quick-frozen dumplings, 'the nutrition of dumplings is relatively rich.'
Finally, and most importantly, the Internet and a lot of animation. " Super tourists said: 'the Internet and animation are the main life contents of otaku. The Internet is the link between us and the outside world. Some otaku were born for the Internet; And animation is the vast majority of otaku & lsquo; Home & rsquo; The reason is that hiding at home and reading comic books without interruption is the most comfortable thing for us. "
In the 'super tourists' home, there are about thousands of comic books, which is not much. According to him, a friend of his buys comic books from Japan and Hong Kong through an online bookstore, which costs tens of thousands of yuan at a time.
House girl: half a 'house' life is very helpless
According to 'super tourists', there should be many otaku like him in Harbin. Some people are friends and have connections. However, the contact between otaku is different from the gathering between netizens. They are only limited to chatting online. Sometimes they can't contact once a month. The principle is that we don't disturb each other's life. With his help, the reporter found the house girl 'Rose Paradise'.
The real name of 'Rose Paradise' is Liu Shubing. It was originally a creative art editor of a large advertising company in Harbin. According to the truth, people like her can't live in a house. However, she is tired of the endless social life, so the house girl has become a way for her to return to herself.
Liu Shubing said: "many people will think that your life is divorced from society and different from ordinary people, but in fact, modern society has provided unlimited possibilities for life, and modern people can live a colorful life without contact with the outside world." Liu Shubing has a normal life at work, but after work or on holidays, she has become a typical housewife.
Liu Shubing claims to be only a half house. She hopes she can live a full house life like other otaku people, 'but the source of income cannot be guaranteed.' Liu Shubing told reporters that there are a lot of semi 'houses' like her. House men and women don't live entirely on their parents. A considerable part of them live by working, but as long as the economy permits, they will return home and live in the house.
Liu Shubing believes that another characteristic of otaku is that they all like collecting. " Our collection is different from traditional antiques. Otaku's collection mainly focuses on toys and picture books. As long as we like it, we don't care whether it has room for appreciation in the future. " Liu Shubing believes that the collection of otaku is also an embodiment of returning to the heart.
Experts recommend psychological counseling
On a website called douban.com, the definition of otaku is: 'a new and new human who is obsessed with something, stays at home, relies on computers and networks, hates work or school, and is accompanied by collector's addiction.'
Otaku people enjoy a 'curtilage' life, but parents are worried. " The mother of "super tourist" told reporters: "I have a headache at the thought of his appearance. People always have to work, or contact with others. They stay at home like them. What's the difference between having this person and not having this person in society?"
Zhang Congpei, director of Harbin mental health center, said in an interview with reporters on the 20th, 'there are many such patients now. I just received three such children yesterday.'
Zhang Congpei said that the so-called otaku are not sick pathologically, but they have psychological problems. This psychological problem presents two symptoms, one is decreased will, the other is fear of intercourse. There are two kinds of children prone to this problem. One is that they dare not face the society, and the other is that they have nothing to do for the time being, such as high school graduates or college graduates. From the analysis of individual characteristics, most of them have incomplete personality. Specifically, the weak character, dare not overcome difficulties, pressure, narcissism, desire for ease and so on. Once patients get used to this life, it is difficult to go out.
For children with such psychological problems, parents should not adopt extreme methods, but should step by step. First, parents should accompany them shopping, let them adapt to the life of the crowd, and arrange learning tasks for them even at home to avoid the decline of their will; Then, take them to social activities in the circle of relatives and friends. Children with such psychological problems generally receive psychological counseling.
Zhang Congpei reminded young people who often surf the Internet, 'don't take otaku as a fashionable life. In fact, such patients already exist. When there is no Internet, they usually read books and watch TV. The fundamental reason why such patients are increasing now is that they still can't bear all kinds of pressure.'