Please do the following questions to see if the relationship between your husband and wife is affected by your children.
How long have you not been alone? A. Half a year B. two months C. one week 2. If the child is still young, when he goes to bed
A. You and your lover sleep separately. B. the child sleeps between them. C. the child sleeps in another bed
3. The child is old. Every time he comes into your room
A. Don't leave the room with the children B. don't say hello to enter C. knock on the door and enter again
4. Which one do you think you care more about between spouse and children?
A. The child is still small, so it is more important to care about C. spouse
When you go out for a walk or play
A. Always leading the children, no time to take care of each other. B. leading the children, but also find a chance to whisper. C. not leading the children, I think it's better to be together
6. Some intimate words
A. Don't speak in front of the child. B. speak in front of the child, but also pay attention to propriety. C. speak in front of the child
7. While taking care of the children, they still keep the little feelings of love, such as playing some music after dinner, taking a walk or dancing
A. I haven't been like this for a long time. B. sometimes I want to. C. It's almost the same as before
8. When the lover and the child fight to talk to you at the same time
A. You always pay more attention to your children. B. first listen to the more important part of the content, and then let the other person speak. C. of course, listen to the lover first
9. When going out for a walk
A. You hold your child's hand and let your lover walk alone behind. B. you three walk hand in hand. C. you hold your lover's hand and let the child play by himself
Scoring method: the above questions, choose a to get 1 point, choose B to get 2 points, choose C to get 3 points.
Analysis of self-test results: the cumulative score is below 11 points, which indicates that your husband and wife's life has been seriously affected by their children, so we should seize the opportunity to change as soon as possible; The cumulative score of 12-18 points shows that your husband and wife live a happy life and you have a happy family; The cumulative score of more than 18 points shows that your husband and wife have a good relationship, but they need to give more care to their children.